"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A girl ignores me...

rocalot

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Hey Guys, whaddup, My name is Rocco, but call me Roc...

Yeah, I am curious about something, there is that girl I know that has been very friendly to me everytime I use to see her, she would talk to me, even she would invite me for a walk, and then we would talk, she seemed like a lot interested to know me there. she even gave me her phone number herself after I invited her to do something on the weekend. When she said yes super sure about it, then changed to no; what does that mean guys? Then I apologized to her since I went too direct with her, I said it was just as friends... Then she started to ignore me... She probably felt that I was too nice... this site helped me a lot to realize it though and now I apply the tips

Is there any other reason why she ignores me? Should I ignore her back if she ignores me? I really feel that I ****ed it all up though... but I learned to be more confident and I apply it now

Sorry if the message is long bros but I need some tips here
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MindOverMatter

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You answered your own question about why she ignores you. My advice, forget about ever doing anything with this girl, and look for other girls. Don't initiate contact with this girl (i.e. don't phone her, or go out of your way to talk to her), but at the same time, don't ignore her. If she comes and wants to talk to you, be friendly, but brief. Most importantly, don't ever hook up with her, even if she changes her mind again and wants to. Trust me on this, this is not the kind of girl you want a relationship with. If a girl wont communicate with you, let her go, and find other girls.
 

Kidd

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Shyt test: She flakes out on you, yet YOU apologize to her. WTF?

You failed her test. Forget about her and she will come to you.
 

rocalot

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Man I am not so sure about it ... she has plenty of friends what the **** if she losses me she doesnt give a ****ing crap!!
 

Kidd

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Why should you give a crap about HER?

Why so much thought over a single girl?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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yes you failed her shyt test as kidd said, and you had no reason for apologizing, yet you did.

ignore her for awhile and she'll come back.
 
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