"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, here is the situation that I systematically screw up: some girl that I see routinely and regularly almost every day develops a crush on me, smiles with a mouth open, looks at me expectantly, cannot say anything, and that goes on and on for weeks. :cheer:
It is very awkward to start anything (I tried!) because she gets very self conscious when I am around.

Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i dont know you personally, but i would guess your confidence level is not a 10???
Just tell yourself it i dont do it someone else will!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

do you really want that to happen, and guess what the situation is poof, gone........the moment is now so take it!

for real man, there is no magic words to get you the gurl, but i dunno try maybe something along these lines when yall come close enough to talk.

"Hello ____ ive seen you around here and just wanted to introduce myself" blahh blahh blahh then end you could close if you want or do it the next day.. let her wonder about you some but you muct leave on a high note.

"Hello, long time no see, so what's your name?"

"Im jennifer,"

"im Bob"

"blahh blahh blahh, well Jackie it was good talking to you and if you;re lucky we'll do it again sometime."

"my name is Jennefer and you're ****y as hell"

"i know Jackie i mean jennefer i was just messin, and im not ****y, im confident with cap letters!! lol seriously we'll have to do this again.....if im Lucky"
 
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Originally posted by Captain Popular
i dont know you personally, but i would guess your confidence level is not a 10???
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How d'ya guess? :nervous:

I've done exactly what you said 3 times before.
The problem is that she is very self-consious, looks at me and freezes, smiles and cannot say a word.
 
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ok man im sorry i thought you said you freeze.....well start small, just say hello one day
then next maybe get her name and for a week satraight say hello name

over time you will be able to engage in lengthier convo's and bamb you ask her out. i dunno you just have to get her to open up but again start small
 
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