"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well at least some people support my actions, thanks frayzer and devilking :)
I'll do my best...

we went out today, talked some and came to a conversation where she said, If she was forced to be in a relationship with someone, it would be me. But that was if she had to be, she said she likes the way she is, that's why she doesn't let me kiss her and stuff.
But I have a feeling that if I kiss her Ill change everything.
She trusts me really well now and lets me do pretty much anything to her :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well at least some people support my actions, thanks frayzer and devilking :)
I'll do my best...

we went out today, talked some and came to a conversation where she said, If she was forced to be in a relationship with someone, it would be me. But that was if she had to be, she said she likes the way she is, that's why she doesn't let me kiss her and stuff.
But I have a feeling that if I kiss her Ill change everything.
She trusts me really well now and lets me do pretty much anything to her :)
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2 thoughts, either:

1. danZy is right, she's leading you on

2. she totally likes you, get her drunk and bang... or just escalate and bang her

i can't say which it is, so you'll just have to go for it and hope for #2
 
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Pretty sure she just said that to make you feel better about your self. Have you tried legit escalating with her? I'm talk escalating to se*. Not hugs or bs like that. You're going to have to do something man. "She's not that type of girl" as I've said before. That's bullcrap.
 
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Pretty sure she just said that to make you feel better about your self. Have you tried legit escalating with her? I'm talk escalating to se*. Not hugs or bs like that. You're going to have to do something man. "She's not that type of girl" as I've said before. That's bullcrap.
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I´m afraid that she says those things just because of that yes.. :S
This weekend Ill be seeing her a lot, we will have alcohol and stuff...maybe that will help her a bit :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I´m afraid that she says those things just because of that yes.. :S
This weekend Ill be seeing her a lot, we will have alcohol and stuff...maybe that will help her a bit :p
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Help her? You're the one that needs help!
 
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Can't wait 4 this mess to turn out 2 see who will end up dumb :D
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Hey, these guys are only here to help you. You're young and naive - and that's fine, but we've seen this kind of **** repeat itself so many times it's ridiculous.

You may be the one exception to the rule. Sure. So what. She might crack once. It doesn't mean you have any real future there. It also doesn't mean it's worth all the time and effort to get to that point. There is always an exception to the rule, but you can't expect people to talk about that one exception when 99.9% of the time, it's not going to happen.

This is so blatantly a girl that is not interested in you sexually one tiny bit, but you keep persuing it anyway. As I said - she may feel comfortable enough with you to crack one time if she's in the right place and drunk, or something, maybe, at a stretch. But if you expect that to escalate then you're sadly mistaken.

I think you should just do what you want, and forget about coming here for advice if you think you know best. One day you will learn. Experience is the best way.
 
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Can't wait 4 this mess to turn out 2 see who will end up dumb :D
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the odds are against you my friend,

mainly because this is the kind of thing with a 100% success rate in the movies and a 1% success rate in real life
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hello me again.

So she was on vacation for a week and she came home yesterday.
I ignored her a bit when she was not home...and the 2nd day she started to miss me... a lot of messages and stuff.. Then she told me that im not even friendzoned, and maybe someday everything will change. Then she started telling me she loves me.

When she came home, we went to my place at 9 pm for 2 hours we were cuddling together, and I also managed to kiss her. :p
The next day she came to my place...all we did was cuddle in bed and were kissing...
But she has this relationship thing kind of weird... i don't know maybe it will progress after time.

Well at least some progress :)
 
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Go for more girls, this way if it doesnt work with this one youl have alternatives.
 
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Go for more girls, this way if it doesnt work with this one youl have alternatives.
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I did this one...Turned out they were classmates...now they both hate me :p
 
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I did this one...Turned out they were classmates...now they both hate me :p
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Go for another one? there many of them.
 
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man you're acting like women are like car spare parts... you just don't go in a shop and buy a new one..

1 more thing...when we lay in bed and cuddle or something... I kind of get the need for sex...or atleast to touch her in some places.. But she doesn't let me :p Only over the boobs but with the shirt on...
She is kind of afraid of sex and probably of dic*s too :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know how you feel BPH...but, somehow, I feel like this guy will defy all odds and get somewhere with this chick. How? Remains to be known. But the amount of AFC'ness going on here is quite painful I must say.
 
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this thread is proof that sometimes AFCs do get laid

rsofa, next time you're alone bring alcohol and challenge her to a drinking contest or play a drinking game

make sure to bring the thickest name brand condoms you could find(do you want to be on the next season of 16&pregnant or teen mom?)
 
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this thread is proof that sometimes AFCs do get laid

rsofa, next time you're alone bring alcohol and challenge her to a drinking contest or play a drinking game

make sure to bring the thickest name brand condoms you could find(do you want to be on the next season of 16&pregnant or teen mom?)
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He didn't get laid...after several months he got a kiss...a kiss...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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