A Girl I Like Just Broke Up With Her Boyfriend When Should I Ask Her Out?

[Dark Horse]

There is this girl in my history class who I have been talking to since September, we have been friendly towards one another. I asked her out in the middle of October but she said she had a boyfriend but I continued to talk to her simply because we sat by each other and I didn't want to make it awkward. I tried pursuing other girls in my other classes. There was a girl in my psychology class who pretty much blocked me on Snapchat when I asked her out :'(

Anyways, she and her boyfriend broke up Sunday December 3rd, I know because she talked about while in our study group. She said that he was too immature, and now she's going out, going to parties, trying to have fun.

I'm going to ask her out again, but how do you think I should approach this? Should I ask her out now or wait for some time? Try to get just sex or get into relationship? I don't really know what i'm doing so need some advice.

 

[Dark Horse]

anyone?

 

[jaymbrs]

There's a good chance she wants to live the single life right now since as you mentioned she's "going to parties, trying to have fun". I would invite her out to attend some parties with you and then go from there.

 

[Billtx49]

Yes, fun and distraction is what she wants right now, and sex is a very potent distraction btw.

 

[way2smart]

I'm going to ask her out again, but how do you think I should approach this? Should I ask her out now or wait for some time? Try to get just sex or get into relationship? I don't really know what i'm doing so need some advice.

Never ask a woman out who just got out of a relationship. First of all, her emotions are all over the place, she will go hot and cold on you in a matter of days. You will most likely catch oneitis and you will be heartbroken and friend-zoned.

Just stay out of this ****.

 

[Dark Horse]

I'm such a loser when it comes to women.

I asked out two girls in my class this semester. One flat out blocked me, the other is just ignoring me.

I friggin suck

 

[Dingo]

I'm such a loser when it comes to women.

I asked out two girls in my class this semester. One flat out blocked me, the other is just ignoring me.

I friggin suck

Only two ?... Dude... You should be approaching many more. You get rejected ?... Get used to it and build on it.... Remember... REJECTION IS BETTER THAN REGRET.

Go back to basics... Read the Book of Pook... https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-1

 

[marmel75]

As soon as possible before someone else does

 

[Young OG]

I'm such a loser when it comes to women.

I asked out two girls in my class this semester. One flat out blocked me, the other is just ignoring me.

I friggin suck

Lose that attitude. Get out there and start doing more approaches. I wouldn't keep gaming girls in your classes. Approach some other girls on campus, the mall, the bars, etc.

 

[Dark Horse]

I have a feeling she's not attracted to me and I can tell from past behaviors. Usually when I ask a girl out, I can get a sense on whether she's going to say yes or no. Just want to see what you guys think.

She frequently takes a long time to open up my snapchat messages, and I know she's active because she views my stories and she posts stories of her own. It's like she ignores me. And in the past, she would always respond with yes or no.

But when we talk in real life, she seems friendly.

We seem to have a lot in common, we both like being active. But for whatever reason, she just doesn't feel the attraction towards me.

In my opinion, it's easier to see whether a girl is interested or not through text rather than talking in real life.