"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A girl I am seeing finds out about my other plates

CantTouchMyStyle

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First of all this is why I hate facebook.

I am kind of regularly seeing this girl (not officially dating) but she found out about my other plates, because they posted on my wall. She's been acting very hot/cold lately and just odd.

I was out of town for New Years last Eve last night and texted this girl tonight asking if she wanted to get a drink. She replied by saying "yeah, only thing that would stop me is if I am not alive."

Odd response, but I was like okay. A few hours later I text her asking if she wants to go to this place we always eat. She responds by saying that sounds so good, and what time? I tell her in a bit. She tells me she is not ready, just woke up from a nap, etc can't. I tell her okay, ill talk to her later.

Like an hour later she texts me back saying she wants to go get food at the spot, but she's meeting friends in like an hour. I tell her I can't make it within 30 mins. She says okay just to forget it.

Odd behavior from someone who just found out about my other plates?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Luscious

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Quality girls don't wait around for anyone touching multiples because they've got options.
 

HolyG

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"It's complicated"

2 magical words. Get that girl in her head and analyzing...

Girl: Do you love me?
It's complicated.

Are you dating other girls?
It's complicated.

Can we be exclusive?
It's complicated.

What are you eating for lunch?
It's complicated.
Girl: Do me!
 

DropZone3

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You have to be careful with FB. If you can, don't put the chicks you are spinning on that site
 
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