"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A girl I am seeing finds out about my other plates

CantTouchMyStyle

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First of all this is why I hate facebook.

I am kind of regularly seeing this girl (not officially dating) but she found out about my other plates, because they posted on my wall. She's been acting very hot/cold lately and just odd.

I was out of town for New Years last Eve last night and texted this girl tonight asking if she wanted to get a drink. She replied by saying "yeah, only thing that would stop me is if I am not alive."

Odd response, but I was like okay. A few hours later I text her asking if she wants to go to this place we always eat. She responds by saying that sounds so good, and what time? I tell her in a bit. She tells me she is not ready, just woke up from a nap, etc can't. I tell her okay, ill talk to her later.

Like an hour later she texts me back saying she wants to go get food at the spot, but she's meeting friends in like an hour. I tell her I can't make it within 30 mins. She says okay just to forget it.

Odd behavior from someone who just found out about my other plates?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Luscious

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Quality girls don't wait around for anyone touching multiples because they've got options.
 

HolyG

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"It's complicated"

2 magical words. Get that girl in her head and analyzing...

Girl: Do you love me?
It's complicated.

Are you dating other girls?
It's complicated.

Can we be exclusive?
It's complicated.

What are you eating for lunch?
It's complicated.
Girl: Do me!
 

DropZone3

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You have to be careful with FB. If you can, don't put the chicks you are spinning on that site
 
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