"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game :)
~AnnaBee
When you are going down on a man, and his balls are really hairy, and you are sucking and kissing his balls, do the ball hairs tickle your lips?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow! There are a lot of sensitive people on here. I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes...
First thing first, KarmaSutra, nope I'm not, nor have I ever been an A student in grammer and I didn't know I was claiming to be, so sorry my incorrect usage of words and run-on sentences like this one offended you. :)
Back to my original question, I will give anyone advice if they would like. If you don't want advice from a woman's POV, that's fine too. I'm not pushing my opinion or "evil femininity" (<---not sure if that's spelled right KarmaSutra...)on anyone.
A few of you have already messaged me and I believe that will work out better. So, if anyone would like to ask me questions that way, go right ahead, I'll listen and help if I can. This thread seems to be tainted with people who already don't like me. I'm not looking for respect, if you want to be disrespectful towards me, go ahead. I will still sleep tonight one way or the other.
 

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if you want to be disrespectful towards me, go ahead. I will still sleep tonight one way or the other.
There are alot of BITTER men on these forums whether it was from some girl who didnt want to go out with him, or a LTR (long term relationship) that has just ended, or even a gf (girlfriend) that a guy just found out was cheating on him with his bestfriend.

you should know this going forward that a lot of people on here dont want to hear from a womens point of view. however, there are a few who would appreciate any advice you may share.
 

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Welcome AnnaBee,

Dont listen to some on these guys, they can be a bit harsh.

In all honesty you do realize your advice means very little here as our war strategies are based not on what "you" want but on what keeps you up at night thinking "What the hell is happenning to me" or "I am not good enough for him". Seduction, Deception and managing expectations is the name of the game and your advice would somewhat contradict that.

However your opinion does help on certain things ;) .

For example, lets say you meet a guy and he gets your number. Now he wasnt anything special but you thought "oh well what the heck". When would you be most willing to talk to him? Late on that day? The day after? 2 days after? I'm sure interest runs dead cold after a few days so I never recommend the 5-7 day rule.
 

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7 posts so far, nothing useful, just telling off and attention seeking. Go away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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7 posts so far, nothing useful, just telling off and attention seeking. Go away.
Yes typical woman, always playing the sarcastic game online to gain the 'upper hand' and 'tell people off', never a logical discussion or whatever. Feminism and pedestalizing never ceases to amaze me.
 

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I will bet that this is iqqi posing as another chick to get some fvcking attention to feed his habit.
Um I can spell, d!ckhead.

Welcome Annabee, alot of these guys are bigger pvssies than any woman. You can tell usually by the bitter decay coming out of their words. Like Karmasutra, for instance. It is very obvious that he is unhappy in his marriage or life. Both probaly. He is very intelligent otherwise, its a friggin shame....
 

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And are you surprised by what the thought process is of some of us men in this forum??
And, DavenJuan, Hell Friggin Yeah. Sometimes I myself am baffled by some of the thought processes on here! Mostly it is funny... when it isn't scary!!!
 

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haha you guys are mean.. As an a$$hole you're only supposed to bash b!tches who aren't trying to help you.

AnnaBee I'd like to see some advice you give. But first a picture to prove you are who you say you are. Send it to my inbox though so nobody tries to make fun of it.
Is that reasonable enough to ask?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi!

Im even worse than "Mr 10 posts" but ill say this anyway.
I used to ask and listen to girls advice

Well.. theyre advice usually stinked..
Sometimes they got just a little close by saying that you should be confident and wewewewe

No offense here AnnaBee.. but thats the way i feel
Wanna see some psychology stuff?.. i think thats interesting.. all this stuff is.. maybe youll like reading my first post....

Id recomend guys find a wingman.. someone you know who knows thing better than you do.. i did that and it has helped a bit

BTW i believe there is at least a slight difference between a HB2s and HB9s opinion..

well
C ya brosss!
 

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Guys, Guys what is happening! I mean a girl comes in and we are attacking each other's throats, please stop the AFC behavior and relax! I dont mean any disrespect to any of you guy's but you guys are acting very childish right now and it really looks bad when you see what kind of forum your in, I mean I thought DJ's were calm, cool, and calculated. If you dont want womens advice on this sort of subject (Ex:ME) then relax and take a deep breath and help someone else out, If you do want help then go ahead and get it, I dont understand why we are attacking EACH OTHER just because some women is here claiming she wants to help now she might just want attention like all women do but if that's the case that is her prerogative and needs not a flame war cause all it proves is that GUYS especially DJ's are fighting for HER entertainment. That's all I gotta say and if you wanna attack me for HER sake then go ahead I will be in another post trying to help people instead of arguing Good luck later.
 

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iqqi said:
Um I can spell, d!ckhead.

Welcome Annabee, alot of these guys are bigger pvssies than any woman. You can tell usually by the bitter decay coming out of their words. Like Karmasutra, for instance. It is very obvious that he is unhappy in his marriage or life. Both probaly. He is very intelligent otherwise, its a friggin shame....
So I see . . .
 

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AnnaBee said:
Sooo, I heard from a friend of mine who said she used to come to this sight to help you guys out with your female issues and questions. So I thought I'd give it a go as well, if anyone is interested. Soo, any questions? Anything's fare game :)
~AnnaBee
Ok, lets assume you are a girl (sorry, I'm cynical.)

Do you really think you can offer helpful advice? Do you typically pick up women? It's a common fact that woman don't know what they want. I should stop writing soon, I have the sick urge to hit on you despite being in these sacred forums (hahaha...)

901-555-5555, call me!

...If you're a girl. That's at least 16. I can't date down more than a year, you know how it is.
 

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Blackmm
Umm, in that case, I'm about a HB 7-8? Does that really matter though? And, sorry, not posting pictures, what is this....Myspace? :)
i'm pretty sure that means she's fugly
:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i'm pretty sure that means she's fugly
:D
Yeah... as opposed to you heartthrobs that are constantly posting your own ugly mugs. :whistle:

However, I think it is interesting to say here, that Fugly Guy is actually friggin HHHHOTTTTTT !
 

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i'm pretty sure that means she's fugly
:D
yeah haha. forget the picture, you can have a 6/10 from me though because I'm a nice guy :)

(my scale goes 0,6,7,8,9)
 

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Yeah... as opposed to you heartthrobs that are constantly posting your own ugly mugs. :whistle:

However, I think it is interesting to say here, that Fugly Guy is actually friggin HHHHOTTTTTT !
what?
i did not understand either sentences.....

and grand almar, did she send u the pics?
 

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iqqi said:
Yeah... as opposed to you heartthrobs that are constantly posting your own ugly mugs. :whistle:

However, I think it is interesting to say here, that Fugly Guy is actually friggin HHHHOTTTTTT !
I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not :cry:

Those scales are screwy too lol.
 

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what?
i did not understand either sentences.....
Most of you who post your pics are NOT hot. You yourself are always talking about how funny you look. And you posted your pic.

Your previous statement would allude to the fact that only ugly people refuse to post their pics. Yet you consider yourself ugly, and YOU posted a pic.


The next statement was in reference to someone here named Fuglydude, who actually is SSSmokin' hot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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