"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A friend, whom I am in love with, is sleeping metres away!

donjuanapprentice01

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But yet..... can't do anything about it! Went out to a club tonight, and she is crashing at my place!

Goddamned friendzone... why do I have to be such an AFC sometimes? Even though I am recovering, I can't do anything about this one.

Frustrated, tortured... all of the above...

:mad:

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tmpgstx

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Why can't you do anything about it? Lol, i guess that's why i don't have female friends i'm interested in. If they're not interested, they know i won't quit trying. It's just natural. Of course you want to bang her if you're attracted.

How did you get into this situation?
 

oakraiderz2

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I dunno if its just me but uh...the fact that shes sleeping and your on a forum trying to get advice about god knows what is kinda weird. Go to bed man, wake up tomorrow, brush yourself off and start the change of what youve know for so long...yourself.
 

wjh

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Forget her. You're beating yourself up for a good reason. Stop being a chump and tell her she has to leave in the morning. You're busy or something. Then stop talking to her and meet new people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

grinder

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Since your in the friendzone, use it. She's got to have friends, hopefully at least one hot one? Your "friend" is your social proof, your automatic pass to her friends. Weirdly enough, when you ask her to introduce you to some of her friends she might look at you a little differently. You can't lose either way!
 
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