"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A friend, whom I am in love with, is sleeping metres away!

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donjuanapprentice01

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But yet..... can't do anything about it! Went out to a club tonight, and she is crashing at my place!

Goddamned friendzone... why do I have to be such an AFC sometimes? Even though I am recovering, I can't do anything about this one.

Frustrated, tortured... all of the above...

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tmpgstx

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Why can't you do anything about it? Lol, i guess that's why i don't have female friends i'm interested in. If they're not interested, they know i won't quit trying. It's just natural. Of course you want to bang her if you're attracted.

How did you get into this situation?
 
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oakraiderz2

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I dunno if its just me but uh...the fact that shes sleeping and your on a forum trying to get advice about god knows what is kinda weird. Go to bed man, wake up tomorrow, brush yourself off and start the change of what youve know for so long...yourself.
 
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wjh

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Forget her. You're beating yourself up for a good reason. Stop being a chump and tell her she has to leave in the morning. You're busy or something. Then stop talking to her and meet new people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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grinder

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Since your in the friendzone, use it. She's got to have friends, hopefully at least one hot one? Your "friend" is your social proof, your automatic pass to her friends. Weirdly enough, when you ask her to introduce you to some of her friends she might look at you a little differently. You can't lose either way!
 
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