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**** a friend, weird now

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So last weekend i had sex with this girl that is in my immediate group of friends. She has been a friend for about a year. This girl always texts me and laughs at everything i say. She is kind of a slut. We had sex because i was drunk a while back and told one of my friends that i would bang her. This spread and she found out, she called me out on this last weekend and we ended up having sex that night.

However, she always talks about guys she had/would bang infront of me. This is not something new, she has done this ever since we met. I realize we are not in a relationship or even dating. But it is kind of annoying and she ended up denying me last night. She might be doing this to make me jealous but i dont know.

Im thinking the best thing to do is just not text her or initate anything. Just freeze her out.

This isnt that big of a deal to me, because i am a better prize than her, she has self esteem issues which im not attracted to, im basically just attracted to her body, but she does have the same sense of humor that i do. I have options so its not like im going to one-its here.

Should i just become distant with this one? i
 

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If you're just friends and just into her for her body, she should be able to go into gory details about the other dudes boning her and it shouldn't bother you.

She probably "denied you" because 1) she doesn't want it to become a regular thing (were you any good?) and 2) she senses you're jealous that she's talking about other dudes and she never wanted you to be a "boyfriend" so she needs to make distance.

I'd just act like it never happened and move on to the next girl. If she wants it again, you know where to find her. ;)

Oh, and post your age if you want to post in Mature Man. This sounds like some High School stuff. :p
 

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My bad on the thread posting. Im 23.

But she def has not sensed that im jealous because i have not been obvious about that at all.

And about the sex. It wasnt that good. It was mostly on her though. I dont want to sound like a douche but im big and she said that she was too tight.. We did bone, but she said it hurt so we stopped. She said in the morning "looks like we had a failed atttempt last night,, should of had lube".

But whatever. im just gonna keep playin it cool and not react
 
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