Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So last weekend i had sex with this girl that is in my immediate group of friends. She has been a friend for about a year. This girl always texts me and laughs at everything i say. She is kind of a slut. We had sex because i was drunk a while back and told one of my friends that i would bang her. This spread and she found out, she called me out on this last weekend and we ended up having sex that night.

However, she always talks about guys she had/would bang infront of me. This is not something new, she has done this ever since we met. I realize we are not in a relationship or even dating. But it is kind of annoying and she ended up denying me last night. She might be doing this to make me jealous but i dont know.

Im thinking the best thing to do is just not text her or initate anything. Just freeze her out.

This isnt that big of a deal to me, because i am a better prize than her, she has self esteem issues which im not attracted to, im basically just attracted to her body, but she does have the same sense of humor that i do. I have options so its not like im going to one-its here.

Should i just become distant with this one? i
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you're just friends and just into her for her body, she should be able to go into gory details about the other dudes boning her and it shouldn't bother you.

She probably "denied you" because 1) she doesn't want it to become a regular thing (were you any good?) and 2) she senses you're jealous that she's talking about other dudes and she never wanted you to be a "boyfriend" so she needs to make distance.

I'd just act like it never happened and move on to the next girl. If she wants it again, you know where to find her. ;)

Oh, and post your age if you want to post in Mature Man. This sounds like some High School stuff. :p
 
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My bad on the thread posting. Im 23.

But she def has not sensed that im jealous because i have not been obvious about that at all.

And about the sex. It wasnt that good. It was mostly on her though. I dont want to sound like a douche but im big and she said that she was too tight.. We did bone, but she said it hurt so we stopped. She said in the morning "looks like we had a failed atttempt last night,, should of had lube".

But whatever. im just gonna keep playin it cool and not react
 
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