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A fight broke out in the gym, women got sexually aroused

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Women like emotional roller-coasters... when things are going too well, they like to shake things up. These two guys took a otherwise potentially boring workout into something interesting that they can now yack about with the friends. That is all it is, don't read too much into this.

Women exhibit the same body language when they are uncomfortable as when they are aroused. A woman who is stressed out will play with their hair (if it's long)... a woman that is turned on... will play with her hair.

Women are attracted to men that exhibit physical qualities that demonstrate they can 'take care of business' if they have too. But they are only interested in men that have the emotional self control and intelligence to know when using your physical strength is appropriate. These two dudes fighting in the gym are not men these women want to be with.
 

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New pickup method:
Find a wing to stage fake fights with. Fake blood a plus.
Have a buddy twice your size approach and “threaten” you. Then “put him in his place” in front of chicks lol.

Now, seriously, never smelled a peanut butter-flavoured one.
That gym is likely infested with mice now.
 

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1990's soccer moms. "DONT SPANK BOBBY! hes just a child that's violence!!
Enter soyburgers in school
When you said "1990's soccer moms", it struck a cord with me. I was born in the mid-1980s, and my formative years were in the 1990s. 1990s soccer moms were raising the children born in the 1980s. The 1980s consists of a good portion of Millennial births (1982-1996). As adults, these 1980s born Millennials have had a fair number of issues. Some of it isn't their fault, such as graduating in recessionary times in the 2000s and taking a fair amount of COVID layoffs. However, many middle class or higher Millennials have been sissified. Starting in the 1990s, there was a de-emphasis of physical violence. Also, school districts became completely ineffective at student discipline. Self-esteem started to be preached too much.

Agree that soy is bad. I avoid eating soy or soy products (soybean oils, soy leitchin, etc).

It's not the lineman getting all the pvssy, it's the quarterback.
Lineman do reasonably well with pusssy. Almost any competitive athlete at either the NCAA level or pro level gets a solid amount of pusssy compared to the non-competitive athlete populace. Football and basketball players at the NCAA level get the most pusssy. College baseball players do well at many schools. Some guys in smaller sports can put up solid notch counts.

I totally agree.
In my kickboxing days I used to attract a lot more women. And I felt great. We need that testosterone as much as out ancestors, if not more.
I've taken boxing/kickboxing classes at a fitness studio before. Doing boxing/kickboxing classes at a studio didn't make the women any more talkative and open to being approached any more than other interval fitness class styles.
 

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I've taken boxing/kickboxing classes at a fitness studio before. Doing boxing/kickboxing classes at a studio didn't make the women any more talkative and open to being approached any more than other interval fitness class styles.
I'm saying it gives you a power that you feel and that women can smell.
 

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These two dudes fighting in the gym are not men these women want to be with.
If these dudes aren't banned from the gym now, then the Next time at least One of these women who witnessed it may try to open said dude. He won't know who she is, but she'll know who he is. Same thing in sports, you don't know Who is looking on or catching wind of say a dominant performance on/in the field. I had secret admirers in baseball, one would put notes in my locker, sit behind the backstop dressed up, get her friend to date my friend so we could go out at night on a lake or something he had access to. She gets chilly, I give her my summer league jacket, it's on. That's when I got the most laid-on-the-platter nook when I made waves in life. It's the easiest, though risky, way to panties. The skilled way is, Game or salesman sly slick way, or hunter going for his prey way.
 

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If these dudes aren't banned from the gym now, then the Next time at least One of these women who witnessed it may try to open said dude. He won't know who she is, but she'll know who he is.
I agree completely that this will happen. Being opened by a woman does make the seduction process easier.
 

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If these dudes aren't banned from the gym now, then the Next time at least One of these women who witnessed it may try to open said dude. He won't know who she is, but she'll know who he is. Same thing in sports, you don't know Who is looking on or catching wind of say a dominant performance on/in the field. I had secret admirers in baseball, one would put notes in my locker, sit behind the backstop dressed up, get her friend to date my friend so we could go out at night on a lake or something he had access to. She gets chilly, I give her my summer league jacket, it's on. That's when I got the most laid-on-the-platter nook when I made waves in life. It's the easiest, though risky, way to panties. The skilled way is, Game or salesman sly slick way, or hunter going for his prey way.
Women who were raised in a violent environment where stuff like this happened all the time, will be attracted and interested in men like this because that is what they are used to and feel comfortable with, but they are a minority and these women who will eventually get you into serious trouble. I dated a chick like this 20 years ago... she used to intentionally pick fights with people to try and stir sh1t up. Once I was pulled over by a cop because I had a tail light out... the stupid b1tch started mouthing off the the policeman... making what could have been just a courtesy stop with a warning to get the light fixed, into me having to get out... get frisked, field sobriety test... and a ticket. That should have given me a clue and should have dumped her @ss right there... Another time we were sitting in a bar, and and she walked over to a table full of dudes and just blew out the candle on their table. These guys were drunk and got ticked off by that, and there I was facing off with 3 drunk dudes that wanted to kick my @ss. That was the last time I saw her... I pretty sure whoever she ended up with spent some time in jail, or the hospital.
 

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If these dudes aren't banned from the gym now, then the Next time at least One of these women who witnessed it may try to open said dude. He won't know who she is, but she'll know who he is.
I doubt they'll be banned because gyms are starving for cash right now. The two male staff did an excellent job de-escalating the situation in a professional manner, the two guys were escorted out individually and it didn't look like police got involved - they treated this similar to how bars treat altercations, police are rarely called in whenever a bar brawl happens.

What will most likely happen is that both of them will be put on a "cooling off" phase where they'll be asked not to come back to that location for a short while, and in the meantime they can workout at other locations - this is a big box commercial gym.
 

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It’s not the violence itself that turns them on, it is the masculine qualities of courage and confidence. Two meatheads fighting in the gym over who knows what isn’t making panties fall. Hotheadedness is not masculine.
I agree with this. I generally apply the John Wayne rule. His characters didn't go around starting fights but he wouldn't hesitate to end one, with force if necessary. He's John Wayne, so it's not always necessary.

But dude you get way too defensive sometimes. It's okay for people here to disagree with you.
 

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No matter what form it takes, women are attracted to power.

Physical dominance is one form of power and the most primal one. Women love that a guy can go around and beat the life out of other men which is why MMA fighters get so much action in a lot of cases. Same reason why bouncers at nightclubs also get a lot of action from women.

One other form is social dominance, women love men who can shut other men down. This is why frame and social intelligence is so greatly valued, you need to be able to put other men in their place immediately.

Wealth is another form of dominance if used correctly, it shows that you have more leverage than other guys and can purchase things like security and other means to come out on top.

Now I know you have talked about race before OP but this is where I have been in disagreement with you. It is not that certain race of men are doomed with women, it is that race is so strongly tied to a man's culture. Certain cultures produce a lot more naturally beta males that easily get dominated hence why women dislike that background. Now if there was an alpha male of that race, he could easily outdo alpha males of other races.
 

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Wrong. Which criminals get laid? The boss or the grunt? There is always a hierarchy. Crime is no different.

Its not the fighter getting the pvssy, its the world champion.

It's not the lineman getting all the pvssy, it's the quarterback.
Bro you’re making the scope wayyyy too narrow. The thug gets more pussy than the average man regardless of whether he’s a mediocre gangbanger or Al Capone, the fighter gets more pussy than the average man regardless of whether he’s the champion or a no-namer, and the football player gets more pussy regardless of whether he’s a star QB or a benchwarmer. If you really think that simply “being a leader” is what gets poon, then you just don’t have enough life experience. Bill Gates even at his prime would not slay more than Richard Ramirez, and I highly doubt Al Sharpton is drowning in pussy either. But Hugh Hefner? He was a playboy till the day he died.
This is completely backwards. Courage is preferable to fearlessness. Much to learn, my friend.
Fearlessness is. The bad boy vibe is much more of a turn on than Captain save-a-hoe and Mr. White Knight.

When you’re fearless, you are always courageous. But when you are courageous, that doesn’t always mean you are fearless.
The "edge" isn't what's getting the *****, its the courage. They sometimes coincide, but they are not the same thing.

She chooses the bad boy over the nice guy simply because the bad boy is not a wimp. It is not because he is a bad boy. There is a difference.
No, it’s not the courage, it’s the masculine drive he has. That masculine drive is what makes him fearless, courageous, and not take shit from people. It’s the inner thing that gives him all of the other attractive traits and qualities that we’ve talked about on here over the years.

Courage is valor, and so is being a leader. But it’s not of sexual attraction because it is not a trait that is sexually dimorphic. It’s a human quality, not a male or female quality. That means that you being a male or female is irrelevant because sex is not a factor that’s involved in this. It’s just that it’s become associated with men because men have courage more often than women do, simply because it follows having that masculine drive.

When I say “drive”, I want you to think like when you are in the gym pushing a heavy ass weight. You grunt and strain, your neck gets tended up, and it’s almost like you have a sort of ‘rage’ or aggression inside of you pushing you through it to get that last rep. THAT is drive. You think a woman can have that? When is the last time you’ve seen a woman push herself that hard? Women *can* be courageous though, it just doesn’t happen often. But that aggressive drive? No, I’ve never seen a woman have that. Even when they tried to push themselves that hard, they just weren’t able to. I’ve seen it once in a woman, and she took so much steroids that her face and voice changed lol (she was a bodybuilder). That only comes from testosterone.

Like I said, it’s the fearlessness that’s attractive, not the courage. Fearlessness, boldness, daringness, etc. are all directly derived from that drive that I’ve been talking about. Courage just happens to be a byproduct of those derivatives, but can occur through other ways that aren’t necessarily masculine
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Read more carefully..
Translation: can he think on his feet when shvt gets tough?
Planning is not nearly the same as thinking on your feet. What you’re talking about is decisiveness with self-assuredness. The whole “I like a man who knows what he wants” quote comes to mind.

And all that goes back to what I was saying before about how it’s about your ability to act when in times of stress, particularly during a sudden crisis. That’s something that is of a person’s essence, which is why I said planning is irrelevant. Honestly, I think we’re saying the same things on this one, but you’re just choosing poor words to describe it lol.
 

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Wrong. Women don’t like hot heads that get into fights. Women sleep with leaders. Leaders display self control, confidence, and intellect. Violence is reserved for self-defense, not chest thumping.



Thats a superficial observation. The word your looking for is courage.




Try reading that comment again.
Amen. These two roid heads who were in the fight are insecure meatheads. Just being on steroids alone makes you an insecure cheater.
 

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Bro you’re making the scope wayyyy too narrow. The thug gets more pussy than the average man regardless of whether he’s a mediocre gangbanger or Al Capone, the fighter gets more pussy than the average man regardless of whether he’s the champion or a no-namer, and the football player gets more pussy regardless of whether he’s a star QB or a benchwarmer. If you really think that simply “being a leader” is what gets poon, then you just don’t have enough life experience. Bill Gates even at his prime would not slay more than Richard Ramirez, and I highly doubt Al Sharpton is drowning in pussy either. But Hugh Hefner? He was a playboy till the day he died.

Fearlessness is. The bad boy vibe is much more of a turn on than Captain save-a-hoe and Mr. White Knight.

When you’re fearless, you are always courageous. But when you are courageous, that doesn’t always mean you are fearless.

No, it’s not the courage, it’s the masculine drive he has. That masculine drive is what makes him fearless, courageous, and not take shit from people. It’s the inner thing that gives him all of the other attractive traits and qualities that we’ve talked about on here over the years.

Courage is valor, and so is being a leader. But it’s not of sexual attraction because it is not a trait that is sexually dimorphic. It’s a human quality, not a male or female quality. That means that you being a male or female is irrelevant because sex is not a factor that’s involved in this. It’s just that it’s become associated with men because men have courage more often than women do, simply because it follows having that masculine drive.

When I say “drive”, I want you to think like when you are in the gym pushing a heavy ass weight. You grunt and strain, your neck gets tended up, and it’s almost like you have a sort of ‘rage’ or aggression inside of you pushing you through it to get that last rep. THAT is drive. You think a woman can have that? When is the last time you’ve seen a woman push herself that hard? Women *can* be courageous though, it just doesn’t happen often. But that aggressive drive? No, I’ve never seen a woman have that. Even when they tried to push themselves that hard, they just weren’t able to. I’ve seen it once in a woman, and she took so much steroids that her face and voice changed lol (she was a bodybuilder). That only comes from testosterone.

Like I said, it’s the fearlessness that’s attractive, not the courage. Fearlessness, boldness, daringness, etc. are all directly derived from that drive that I’ve been talking about. Courage just happens to be a byproduct of those derivatives, but can occur through other ways that aren’t necessarily masculine
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Planning is not nearly the same as thinking on your feet. What you’re talking about is decisiveness with self-assuredness. The whole “I like a man who knows what he wants” quote comes to mind.

And all that goes back to what I was saying before about how it’s about your ability to act when in times of stress, particularly during a sudden crisis. That’s something that is of a person’s essence, which is why I said planning is irrelevant. Honestly, I think we’re saying the same things on this one, but you’re just choosing poor words to describe it lol.
Don’t bother arguing with the guy.
 

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I do it because it works on my verbal skills and my verbal articulation. But also because I want others who are new to all this stuff to know he’s wrong and why.
True indeed. Sometimes when we debate someone, the goal isn't necessarily to try to convince them why they're incorrect, but rather to demonstrate to onlookers why the other guy is incorrect in his assessment....
 
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