"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cola

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Carry mints/gum. Bad breath kills interactions.

Never look away first. If you lock eyes smile.

Don't talk to girls who's kids are around. Its tasteless.

Too much cologne is bad. Just a dab will do.

Have good table manners on the date. No elbows on table.

Speak slowly and annunciate. Try not to stammer or stutter .

Don't discuss anything you learn here with people.

Add your own quick tips. Follow my format.


Be friendly, try not to be a mean person..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sicsec

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Totally agree with the mints/gum deal. Have smelled some putrid breath on very attractive girls afters hours of drinking and smoking that gives you a totally different opinion of them. Could imagine what my breath smells like sometimes if I don't remedy it. Another tip is don't interrupt or look away at other girls when talking with her. Believe kino is very important in a subtle way to build attraction and a bond. Something about the power of touch in a spontaneous personable way that gives girls a little sampler of what might be coming later. Never show insecurities or jealousies around girls or put her on a pedestal. Act as if you've been out with hundreds of very attractive girls and its a habit of yours. Be calm and relaxed and in control. These are all things that I've preached that I haven't practiced totally in the past and they come back to backfire on me or caused me not to get laid or develop any kind of relationship because of.
 
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