"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Carry mints/gum. Bad breath kills interactions.

Never look away first. If you lock eyes smile.

Don't talk to girls who's kids are around. Its tasteless.

Too much cologne is bad. Just a dab will do.

Have good table manners on the date. No elbows on table.

Speak slowly and annunciate. Try not to stammer or stutter .

Don't discuss anything you learn here with people.

Add your own quick tips. Follow my format.


Be friendly, try not to be a mean person..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Totally agree with the mints/gum deal. Have smelled some putrid breath on very attractive girls afters hours of drinking and smoking that gives you a totally different opinion of them. Could imagine what my breath smells like sometimes if I don't remedy it. Another tip is don't interrupt or look away at other girls when talking with her. Believe kino is very important in a subtle way to build attraction and a bond. Something about the power of touch in a spontaneous personable way that gives girls a little sampler of what might be coming later. Never show insecurities or jealousies around girls or put her on a pedestal. Act as if you've been out with hundreds of very attractive girls and its a habit of yours. Be calm and relaxed and in control. These are all things that I've preached that I haven't practiced totally in the past and they come back to backfire on me or caused me not to get laid or develop any kind of relationship because of.
 
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