"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A few questions about ****y & Funny

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1. How do I find things to make fun of the girl for?

2. How do I get good at finding the right things to make fun of her for over the wrong things to make fun of her for?

3. Should I worry about being too mean?

4. How do I pull of ****y and funny without being awkward?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. How do I find things to make fun of the girl for?

you just have to become a good listener and observer. if she says something like " let's do it", you could reply with a " do it here? now? you haven't even taken me out on a date yet "

2. How do I get good at finding the right things to make fun of her for over the wrong things to make fun of her for?

If it doesn't make her laugh, chances are the ****y and funny role didn't go through very well.

3. Should I worry about being too mean?

^^^ check number 2. but no, you shouldn't worry too much about being mean. Bust her balls, and tease her. Let her know just because she's cute that you won't put up with her sh1t

4. How do I pull of ****y and funny without being awkward?

Practice? As it becomes more into your personality, it should become easier and flow naturally. focus on your tone. are you smiling while you say it? are you giving her a straight face when you say something? It's more about the body language than what you're saying.
 
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Demystify said:
1. How do I find things to make fun of the girl for?

2. How do I get good at finding the right things to make fun of her for over the wrong things to make fun of her for?

3. Should I worry about being too mean?

4. How do I pull of ****y and funny without being awkward?
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C&F is VERY VERY VERY powerful when used right.

1. - Everything you notice about her can be turned into a joke.
Even something as trivial as, say, "wow you're laughing a lot, are you high on laughing gas?"
(If she protests, you've done well.)

2. There are no wrong things! Try not to be mean though. It's not a bad thing if you are unintentionally mean to her, but you MUST apologize and say you took it too far. That's a responsibility.

3. See #2. Overall rule: never worry about anything.

4. Okay I think you need a new mindset on this one. If you AREN'T using C&F, you're probably acting like a nice guy. Awkwardness? Nice guys are awkward, bad boys who use C&F are not. Btw re-read #3.


Hope this helps.
 
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The only time I ever use ****y and funny is the moment I'm alone with the girl and we're talking, leading to sex.. Actually this is quite true, it would come off as rather stupid at an earlier time I'm saying at least that is for me... it's just the right time to act illogical right before sex, hence ****y and funny if she's giving a little resistance, another thing to observe is that I don't act ****y and funny until after the initial kiss and making out, like I said, it just seems like that is the right time to start behaving illogical.. albeit still completely sexually projecting and focused. Everyone might have their own scheme however this is definitely what works for me, and I'm not green, I have sexed enough of a variety of personalities to know what works. You know? Chuch.

Jorge Gonzalez
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demystify said:
1. How do I find things to make fun of the girl for?

2. How do I get good at finding the right things to make fun of her for over the wrong things to make fun of her for?

3. Should I worry about being too mean?

4. How do I pull of ****y and funny without being awkward?
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1. example: "You've got an old lady purse"
I use this if I've built some rapport with a woman and she has one of those huge purses that some women like to carry around.

2. DO NOT talk about a woman's weight. Ever. Even if she brings it up. Especially if she brings it up. This is a sensitivity that women cannot get passed.

3. No, especially not early on. If you offend someone then so what? Life'll go on for them and you and you may have a chance to redeem later. If not, so what?
example: non-offensive depending on the situation... "You do kinda have big feet, but they're still cute."
offensive... "You've got the Shallow Hal long toe." (Remember from shallow hal, jason alexander's character couldn't get over the fact that this girl's 2nd toe was longer than the big toe.

4. Confidence is key. Sometimes you just can't help but step into an awkward situation.
I wish some of these "Don Juans" would post their moments of not-so great glory.
 
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It's in some people naturally. If you are already a funny guy who likes to joke around alot, try finding the ****y elements and add it to your game. However, this would require alot of practice. You can start being C&F with your friends, until you're totally fluid with it. Most importantly, you have to feel extremely comfortable.

Anyway, in response to Ridingthelightning's post, i'd like to know how you guys deal with awkward situations. Maybe, you make a judgment on something, and she begs to differ and makes a rebuttal. And you realise you don't got nothing much to say. What would you do.
 
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