Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a fellow PUA is targeting this girl,should i interfere?

krakatoa

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Hi,i'm new here but i've known this PUA stuff for a year..i like this girl but i've been LJBF'd by her recently..a friend of mine who knows about The Game is targeting her..should i just leave her alone and move on to other girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah I just got that recently 2 exactly the same problems but Im going to leave her alone isn't it a dj rule to be patient!? Just if you really want to just make sure your really good friends like i am, just don't spend all your time on her look for others in the mean time u might find better
 

Vice

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LOL at all the pickup jargon in this post.

The Game = Garbage

The DJ Bible = Gold

The unspoken rule is that you can move in when he messes up.
 
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Karatoga:

NO!

why?


Why playerhate? Don't hate on another player just cause you got azzed out of the deal.

And, why would you even want to be that ho's friend after she basically said to you :

"the very thought of sleeping with you disgusts me so deeply that I would rather eat vomit than sleep with you since you do not in one ounce turn my pvssie on"

And that is what you want to wait around for hoping to get some while you rub her feet and listen to her whine about the other player who is breaking her heart?

You would rather put yourself in that position in hopes of some scraps?

And, your ok with this?

Or are you man enough to walk away and let her learn her lessons about players.

I REALLY hate player haters!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJVladdy

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Interfere? Like a punk who sabotages others out of jealousy?

no.
 
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