"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a fellow PUA is targeting this girl,should i interfere?

krakatoa

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Hi,i'm new here but i've known this PUA stuff for a year..i like this girl but i've been LJBF'd by her recently..a friend of mine who knows about The Game is targeting her..should i just leave her alone and move on to other girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Yeah I just got that recently 2 exactly the same problems but Im going to leave her alone isn't it a dj rule to be patient!? Just if you really want to just make sure your really good friends like i am, just don't spend all your time on her look for others in the mean time u might find better
 

Vice

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LOL at all the pickup jargon in this post.

The Game = Garbage

The DJ Bible = Gold

The unspoken rule is that you can move in when he messes up.
 
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Karatoga:

NO!

why?


Why playerhate? Don't hate on another player just cause you got azzed out of the deal.

And, why would you even want to be that ho's friend after she basically said to you :

"the very thought of sleeping with you disgusts me so deeply that I would rather eat vomit than sleep with you since you do not in one ounce turn my pvssie on"

And that is what you want to wait around for hoping to get some while you rub her feet and listen to her whine about the other player who is breaking her heart?

You would rather put yourself in that position in hopes of some scraps?

And, your ok with this?

Or are you man enough to walk away and let her learn her lessons about players.

I REALLY hate player haters!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJVladdy

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Interfere? Like a punk who sabotages others out of jealousy?

no.
 
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