A father wins!!!!

[Burroughs]

Lots of stories of injustice for men in the world today....not this one

Stories like this should not be so rare

http://news.yahoo.com/sgt-reunited-baby-given-adoption-181449034--abc-news-topstories.html

 

[evan12]

Not exactly , it wasn't between father or mother so no gender bias here .Mother didn't want her daughter

 

[Burroughs]

"This is the first known case where the Utah State Supreme Court has removed a child from an [adoptive parent's] home and returned the child to the ... legal father"

That the father had to fight this hard, all the way to the state supreme court, to win custody of his own child away from complete strangers is so disgusting and it just shows how evil and upside down the system really is.

It is a victory, but one that shows just how low men's rights has sunk.

thats the reason I posted it.

You wonder if we dudes didn't have a deep and unrelenting addiction to puzzy if we wouldn't just enslave women with the chickens in the coop until it was time to bear our kids.

 

[Burroughs]

This is unfvckingbelievable burroughs like a man has to go to court for years and take it ALL THE WAY TO THE MOTHERFVCKING STATE SUPREME COURT just to win custody of his own kid! And it wasn't even against the mother, it was against two complete strangers!

it is outrageous

but it would seem men at large have trouble correlating this injustice with larger systemic pressures AFFECTING THEM

99% of men will look at this story and shrug feeling neither outrage nor resolve....they will simply bask in delusional arrogance and say..."i'm alpha so my woman is different and she would never do this to me."

and this arrogance holds true until he finds himself signing a waiver against being assaulted in jail by a woman he believed **loved** him....then he learns the terrible truth....but it is too late to salvage his life.

 

[Aristippus]

Danger said :As Zarky, Slickster and Backbreaker would say......

You guys are all messed up, bitter, histrionic, (assorted attempts at shaming), etc,....



I honestly do not understand how men can be so blind to the fact they are second class citizens. The white-knight is so strong in people it can be nearly impossible to destroy.

***The bitter realities can be an antidote for men who put women on a pedestal. Once they realize that many women out there are barricudas with unattractive personality traits and are not fit for long term relationships or marriage, it's a very easy way to take them off of that pedestal. It's also a very easy way for a man to realize and appreciate his own worth. Once you realize your own worth and see the negative traits that many women possess, it can free you up to simply stop trying to bend over backwards to please them all of the time.

It also allows you to find the few good women that are out there because you don't waste your time putting up with b.s. from the women that aren't worth your time. At the same time, when you have a healthy optimism along with a balance of healthy skepticism, you won't rush things. You tend to hold back when needed, which, strangely enough, is a characteristic behavior many men run into. Women holding back.

When the behavior is reversed ,for valid, internal reasons that a man believes in, suddenly HE is the one who can hold back. Then when he does meet someone he is attracted to, that tendency to move forward but with caution serves not only to protect himself, but it will usually drive the women crazy that he spends time with and he will experience almost no resistance whatsoever. When he pursues too hard, because of wrong attitudes, she is repulsed. When he enjoys himself and enjoys his time with her, without feeling a sense of desperation, because he knows his worth, not only does he enjoy their interactions more, but she is magnetically drawn to him.

 

[Epimanes]

I am amused ...

This is funny actually. My wife and I had a talk about if we ever broke up the other night. She stated... She would be scared because both my kids have told her that they want to be with me if we ever spilt... my oldest one is darn near old enough to drive .. and my younger one is almost 10.

So with that I dont think I would even have to fight for custody if it ever came down to that.