I feel completely lost right now guys.
Here me out:
Lately, sarging at school...blows. *Note that I am not being TOO picky here* The girls I've dated were either JUST FRIENDS, whether I "befriended" her, or vice versa, hot but taken, not hot but available, or either.
My conversation skills are acceptional; when I talk to my friends, I can have fun. When I talk to girls, I can use the ****y/funny without going out of control, make 'em laugh, etc. However, in big groups, I lack the charisma to make things fun/interesting, usually because I either don't follow with the crap they talk about or because I'm not that close with the group.
The last two days in my 6th period class, the girls I know usually talk about...well...girl talk. I'm the only guy in a class full of 5-8 girls. I try to join in at times, but they act cold and ignore me as they talk about fashion, clothes, guys, models, whatever, so I just do my own sh*t while listening to their endless talking. I have tried squeezing into the convo's and ask open-ended questions regarding their current topic, but they shoot it down with one/two word answers and continue with their sh*t. It pisses me off so I just leave.
I also feel as though my sarging level has dramatically decreased; at times when I talk to certain girls, I just...blank out. I dunno what to say. I start with the small crap, then open it up to bigger and funnier/serious stuff, but these days my tongue gets twisted and I leave the convo at a dead end.
It seems that my confidence, social skills, and self-image has been going down lately. I haven't had field practice for a solid 3 months, and I feel the side-effects of it.
DJ's! What could I do to solve my current problems that I stated above?! I feel like crap and it would mean a lot if you guys gave me some feedback to uplift my spirit.
P.S. Finals are coming up so I refuse to go out and have fun until it's done.
Here me out:
Lately, sarging at school...blows. *Note that I am not being TOO picky here* The girls I've dated were either JUST FRIENDS, whether I "befriended" her, or vice versa, hot but taken, not hot but available, or either.
My conversation skills are acceptional; when I talk to my friends, I can have fun. When I talk to girls, I can use the ****y/funny without going out of control, make 'em laugh, etc. However, in big groups, I lack the charisma to make things fun/interesting, usually because I either don't follow with the crap they talk about or because I'm not that close with the group.
The last two days in my 6th period class, the girls I know usually talk about...well...girl talk. I'm the only guy in a class full of 5-8 girls. I try to join in at times, but they act cold and ignore me as they talk about fashion, clothes, guys, models, whatever, so I just do my own sh*t while listening to their endless talking. I have tried squeezing into the convo's and ask open-ended questions regarding their current topic, but they shoot it down with one/two word answers and continue with their sh*t. It pisses me off so I just leave.
I also feel as though my sarging level has dramatically decreased; at times when I talk to certain girls, I just...blank out. I dunno what to say. I start with the small crap, then open it up to bigger and funnier/serious stuff, but these days my tongue gets twisted and I leave the convo at a dead end.
It seems that my confidence, social skills, and self-image has been going down lately. I haven't had field practice for a solid 3 months, and I feel the side-effects of it.
DJ's! What could I do to solve my current problems that I stated above?! I feel like crap and it would mean a lot if you guys gave me some feedback to uplift my spirit.
P.S. Finals are coming up so I refuse to go out and have fun until it's done.