RickTheToad
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She showed many of us her phone... It said: I miss your holes.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It was an eye peeler... Even for me. Either very brazen or very naive. Either way, not a good way to converse via text.Perhaps she gave him shots or IV injections ?
It’s a hilarious text to say the least…
Kevin Samuels has a list of women not to date. This demographic is amount the most slutty and undesirable. Some attractive but the tiktok skanks twerking as family die even if elderly shows the lack of common sense. The experience coincides with Kevin. The divorce stats and infidelity track record says it all. IMHO if in were to guess, playboy is her alpha widow. My mates that work in fire or law enforcement run through those skanks on the regular. The more belligerent and krass the better the outcome. Seeded dread. Msg reeks of indifference contrary to the neediness it would convey if not for the vulgar exclamation point.It was an eye peeler... Even for me. Either very brazen or very naive. Either way, not a good way to converse via text.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nurses are undesirable?This demographic is amount the most slutty and undesirable.
Purely anecdotal: I know a number of guys in relationships with nurses and the female has cheated on them -- and not necessarily with a doctor at the hospital.Nurses are undesirable?
The nursing profession is a traditionally feminine profession, so the idea could be that it would attract traditionally feminine women.
A nurse is often a better bet than a female lawyer.
I'm not defending nurses since my personal experience with them is limited. One idea I have is that nurses have access to doctors, which could push their hypergamic desires in a long term relationship. Guys in relationships with nurses should consider that.
I think that is a pretty awesome text to send to a chick assuming he had some type of sexual encounter with her in the past. If not I suppose it could be sexual harassment. Very ballsy regardless!She showed many of us her phone... It said: I miss your holes.
Hhh that's a good message. Now she's wondering which onesShe showed many of us her phone... It said: I miss your holes.
Especially if he sent it to all of the nursesIf it were a man showing his colleagues the text, he'd likely be reprimanded by HR.
But since it's a female showing colleagues the text, it's funny.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If aesthetic I will slay. I am saying, given the prevalence of fellas who are here looking at playing house, it's not ideal.Nurses are undesirable?
The nursing profession is a traditionally feminine profession, so the idea could be that it would attract traditionally feminine women.
I would tell a son to avoid the demographic outside recreation and I would warn a daughter of law enforcement, military, fire, and first responders.Why Do Nurses Have a High Divorce Rate?
1. High Stress
Nursing professionals consistently face high levels of stress in their healthcare roles. Many people hold them in high regard, and thus they have many expectations to live up to. The high expectations lead to stress, which often spills into their personal life. That results in confusion, strain and a disconnection between the people they love. Other factors that may contribute to high-stress include:
2. Barriers in Communication
- The long shifts
- Mandatory overtime
- Short staffing
- Insufficient pay
- Demanding patient care
Nurses undergo thorough training on the importance of communication with all parties involved in a patient’s care. They need to communicate effectively with the patients they care for, and the families of those patients. However, some nurses might not know how to communicate effectively outside their professional role. They may fail to know how to communicate with their spouses in a nurturing manner. Yes, many nurses care about others, but they might not really care enough about their marital relationships and family
3. Power Struggles
The nursing profession is highly respected. The level of respect tends to come with a specific level of power. If the power is used incorrectly, it may cause one’s spouse to feel inferior, eventually leading to resistance and separation. The power may also come from the average six figure yearly wage of nurses. Sometimes, the salary of a female nurse is more than that of her male spouse. Since males love to view themselves as the head of the household; the salary difference can lead to resentment.
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One of my mates is a MD intern. The stories accurately portray hypergamy. he refuses to date nurses.A nurse is often a better bet than a female lawyer.
I'm not defending nurses since my personal experience with them is limited. One idea I have is that nurses have access to doctors, which could push their hypergamic desires in a long term relationship. Guys in relationships with nurses should consider that.
She wanted to play Victim but it shows the men who are stretching her out in best years. The higher your smv the more you can be savage. the consequences for which are left over women and alpha widow.Chad can get away with such a text. You or I can’t. When Chad texts her that she tingles all over.
Lmfao as in, she gave up the butt too.She showed many of us her phone... It said: I miss your holes.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If "Chad" is the name for any man she wants to be fvcked by. The same "Chad" can send this text to one woman to make her dripping wet and another woman would react totally differently.Chad can get away with such a text. You or I can’t. When Chad texts her that she tingles all over.
One of my cousins is divorced from a nurse. Not sure if she cheated. I suspect it.Purely anecdotal: I know a number of guys in relationships with nurses and the female has cheated on them -- and not necessarily with a doctor at the hospital.
Good idea avoiding female lawyers. I've rarely encountered them. They are easier to spot on swipe apps than in real life venues when there isn't a pandemic. They don't have great social lives.Also purely anecdotal: I just got out off a LTR with a female lawyer (I am a lawyer myself), and I can tell you that court is always in session to a certain degree when you are in a relationship with one. Everything is a negotiation or an argument. She was the first and last lawyer I will ever be in a LTR with.
+1If "Chad" is the name for any man she wants to be fvcked by. The same "Chad" can send this text to one woman to make her dripping wet and another woman would react totally differently.
You or I can get away with such a text, but she MUST already have strong sexual attraction. I'm guessing this guy didn't have such attraction already established...
I think modern western world women are not marriage minded nor material. Being incentivized to divorce rape and ruin the children shows female nature. I think certain careers demonstrate masculine demeanor like law, law enforcement, military, trades, etc. Nurses are feminine and physically attractive when young. Typically bulking and ruined by epiphany phase.One of my cousins is divorced from a nurse. Not sure if she cheated. I suspect it.
Good idea avoiding female lawyers. I've rarely encountered them. They are easier to spot on swipe apps than in real life venues when there isn't a pandemic. They don't have great social lives.
Yes. Dating most epiphany phase women is not good.Nurses are feminine and physically attractive when young. Typically bulking and ruined by epiphany phase.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.