"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A DJ Valentines Day Gift...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
I've been with my girl for a while now, so I'm sort of running out of gift ideas for special occasions. A year and a half in a relationship, anybody out there with any clever inputs?
Another thing. My girl has already told me she made plans for us for valentines throughout the day and asked me if I could plan the night. I was thinking a nice romantic dinner and then some sort of activity afterwards. Anybody with some sort of positive past experience or some reasonable inputs please throw them in. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanx.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Most guys buy flowers, chocolates and bring her out to dinner and it's so cliched and predictable.
Why not take a drive and go someplace different? A nice walk in the woods with a packed lunch?
Go do something that is completly opposite of what's normal.
Go to a bull fight, get on the train and ride out of town for the day... anything. it doesn't have to be expensive.
Put some thought into it as a day for the both of you... not a day where you reward her with petty gifts, just cuz she's your GF.
Get creative. she'll appreciate a day out of the norm much more then material things... escpecially predictable ones