"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sexysuave
Senior Don Juan
I've been with my girl for a while now, so I'm sort of running out of gift ideas for special occasions. A year and a half in a relationship, anybody out there with any clever inputs?
Another thing. My girl has already told me she made plans for us for valentines throughout the day and asked me if I could plan the night. I was thinking a nice romantic dinner and then some sort of activity afterwards. Anybody with some sort of positive past experience or some reasonable inputs please throw them in. It would be greatly appreciated. Thanx.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Most guys buy flowers, chocolates and bring her out to dinner and it's so cliched and predictable.
Why not take a drive and go someplace different? A nice walk in the woods with a packed lunch?
Go do something that is completly opposite of what's normal.
Go to a bull fight, get on the train and ride out of town for the day... anything. it doesn't have to be expensive.
Put some thought into it as a day for the both of you... not a day where you reward her with petty gifts, just cuz she's your GF.
Get creative. she'll appreciate a day out of the norm much more then material things... escpecially predictable ones