"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A dj job

ssj245

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I was thinking about my future career and I I am sure that most people dont consider this when choosing a career, but I am. Its the sex factor. In other words, its how well the job helps you become a DJ.

For example, a firefighter has to be brave and strong and those qualities can easily translate into Dj material and so can people in the Armed Forces, since they are taught to fight fear and such, and when these people go clubbing or dating they already have the masulinity aspect down pat.

In comparison on an average, a person who is doing computer programming will tend to be geeky and introverted and reserved and wont excel in dating, unless he can overcome the job's and natural tendencies of his persoanlity that attracted him to that job in the first place.

The job or career we choose has alot to do with our personalites and what we are like.

So I was thinking what jobs would help cultivate the DJ spirit/mindset which is basically about conquering your fear.

the obvious are firefighters, police, army.

But what about some desk jobs, because they tend not to pay as much, its not fair I have to have my balls cut off just to make some money. I would be a firefighter in a heart beat if they made like 70k.

Anyway all I can think up of are

DJ:
Fire Fighter
Army
Police
Lawyer
Media/Acting

Not Dj:
Engineering
Computers
Doctor

Any "geeky" ocupations will not help you foster Dj mentality, and thats just my opinion. And by geeky I mean any career that involves isolated and complicated and intricate work away from people.

By no means does it mean engineers cant be pimps.

Any more suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oakraiderz2

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Shouldnt you be concerned about the thought of doing that job everyday and not hating your life? Yea, think thats a little more important than 'DJ' jobs. I hate these kind of post.
 

dirtysanchez

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I would've thought a doctor would be considered a DJ job, it's high profile and well respected in society, plus you need to have good people skills to succeed.
 

KarmaSutra

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I'd take Doctor off your bottom list jack. Why do you think Docs ALWAYS trade up after they get an M.D. after thier names?

I'm a filmmaker. Add me to the top list.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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twilight

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I'm gonna get the ultimate dj job...I'm gonna become a "dj" as in "disc jockey"
 
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