"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Discussion about Locked Threads of Late.

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BeDJ

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My thread got locked because a member did not have the reservation to spread his propaganda. Instead of dealing with someone in certain, the moderators thought it was best to lock the thread to avoid confrontation. There is a difference between censorship and authority. We all know the post(s) that resulted in my thread being locked. The mods would rather dismiss a potential thread because of PC than to keep it going in hopes to help other men in my situation. This was an unforeseeable journey for me and I made one hell of a reflection upon myself and gaming women.

The abundance mentality does not apply in helping your fellow men.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Married Buried

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Threads need to stay open this place is dead. Any drama is better than no drama, we need some action around here.
 

speed dawg

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Danger said:
Mods are doing a fine job here, with one exception and we know who that is.
Bingo.

In B4 da lock
 

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My thread got locked because LIVEFREEX did not have the reservation to spread his propaganda. Instead of dealing with someone in certain, the moderators thought it was best to lock the thread to avoid confrontation. There is a difference between censorship and authority. We all know the post(s) that resulted in my thread being locked. The mods would rather dismiss a potential thread because of PC than to keep it going in hopes to help other men in my situation. This was an unforeseeable journey for me and I made one hell of a reflection upon myself and gaming women.

The abundance mentality does not apply in helping your fellow men.
So lets ban all those who disagree with us or call out our slutty behaviour.. slvt walk anyone? I'm thinking SS and more importantly PUA is just turning into the male version of feminism.

Yes I agree with you BeDJ, I should not have called you a scum bag, I should have said that your behaviour was scum baggery.

Infact I think on SS from now on, we should only have posts that agree wholeheartedly with the majority opinion and anything that could possibly cause a stir or cause the other person to lose face or have hurt feelings should be avoided altogether.

Wow doesn't that just sound like modern feminism to you? Fat shaming anyone>?

How dare I call out irresponsible and selfish behaviour! Lets opt only to discuss how to fvck women not the consequences of choosing the wrong woman... no we musn't speak of that.
in hopes to help other men in my situation
The situation in question being you pushing your 'plate' to abort the baby. I do hope other men in your situation consider the feelings of others before they go back to their world of 'all about me'. Please don't come to SS pleading that you are a victim when infact you're the perp and not expect to get called on it by at least 1 member.
spread his propaganda
In this case my propaganda would be TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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n00bPimp said:
I'm seeing more discussions about locked threads and banned users than ever before. Not sure if mods have gotten stricter or users have gotten whinier.
Members have gotten whinier.
 
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