"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A Discussion about Locked Threads of Late.

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BeDJ

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My thread got locked because a member did not have the reservation to spread his propaganda. Instead of dealing with someone in certain, the moderators thought it was best to lock the thread to avoid confrontation. There is a difference between censorship and authority. We all know the post(s) that resulted in my thread being locked. The mods would rather dismiss a potential thread because of PC than to keep it going in hopes to help other men in my situation. This was an unforeseeable journey for me and I made one hell of a reflection upon myself and gaming women.

The abundance mentality does not apply in helping your fellow men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Married Buried

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Threads need to stay open this place is dead. Any drama is better than no drama, we need some action around here.
 

speed dawg

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Danger said:
Mods are doing a fine job here, with one exception and we know who that is.
Bingo.

In B4 da lock
 

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My thread got locked because LIVEFREEX did not have the reservation to spread his propaganda. Instead of dealing with someone in certain, the moderators thought it was best to lock the thread to avoid confrontation. There is a difference between censorship and authority. We all know the post(s) that resulted in my thread being locked. The mods would rather dismiss a potential thread because of PC than to keep it going in hopes to help other men in my situation. This was an unforeseeable journey for me and I made one hell of a reflection upon myself and gaming women.

The abundance mentality does not apply in helping your fellow men.
So lets ban all those who disagree with us or call out our slutty behaviour.. slvt walk anyone? I'm thinking SS and more importantly PUA is just turning into the male version of feminism.

Yes I agree with you BeDJ, I should not have called you a scum bag, I should have said that your behaviour was scum baggery.

Infact I think on SS from now on, we should only have posts that agree wholeheartedly with the majority opinion and anything that could possibly cause a stir or cause the other person to lose face or have hurt feelings should be avoided altogether.

Wow doesn't that just sound like modern feminism to you? Fat shaming anyone>?

How dare I call out irresponsible and selfish behaviour! Lets opt only to discuss how to fvck women not the consequences of choosing the wrong woman... no we musn't speak of that.
in hopes to help other men in my situation
The situation in question being you pushing your 'plate' to abort the baby. I do hope other men in your situation consider the feelings of others before they go back to their world of 'all about me'. Please don't come to SS pleading that you are a victim when infact you're the perp and not expect to get called on it by at least 1 member.
spread his propaganda
In this case my propaganda would be TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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n00bPimp said:
I'm seeing more discussions about locked threads and banned users than ever before. Not sure if mods have gotten stricter or users have gotten whinier.
Members have gotten whinier.
 
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