"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A Dilemma

longvi1991

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Hi guys, first post and i have a question for you:

I know a girl who I like intelectually, I admire her way of thinking... but I can't bring myself to wanting to have her as my girlfriend.

So, are looks the only thing that matters, or should you be able to date someone based on her incredible personality?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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longvi1991 said:
Hi guys, first post and i have a question for you:

I know a girl who I like intelectually, I admire her way of thinking... but I can't bring myself to wanting to have her as my girlfriend.

So, are looks the only thing that matters, or should you be able to date someone based on her incredible personality?
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I had someone who didn't have what I thought was the "looks", but the more and more I talked to her the more attractive she got to me, you could even see it in her face as her confidence grew by talking to me.

Talk to her and see how you feel.
 
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