A Dilemma

[longvi1991]

Hi guys, first post and i have a question for you:

I know a girl who I like intelectually, I admire her way of thinking... but I can't bring myself to wanting to have her as my girlfriend.

So, are looks the only thing that matters, or should you be able to date someone based on her incredible personality?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hi guys, first post and i have a question for you:

I know a girl who I like intelectually, I admire her way of thinking... but I can't bring myself to wanting to have her as my girlfriend.

So, are looks the only thing that matters, or should you be able to date someone based on her incredible personality?

I had someone who didn't have what I thought was the "looks", but the more and more I talked to her the more attractive she got to me, you could even see it in her face as her confidence grew by talking to me.

Talk to her and see how you feel.