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So every person in my life is acting out of issues. And this has caused my life to become a pit of disaster. What i want to say to them:
"I did right. I can feel the pride in my skin-the absolute rectitude of my certainty that I was right-I can feel the octane pumping through my veins. YOU GAVE UP! If I could do this, if I could feel this right now (despite what you did) you had NO RIGHT"
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Your post is light on specifics, but is there a "most toxic" person you could cut out of your life, to make things less of a "pit of disaster"?
 
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It doesn't matter. Holding these type of grudges or negative feelings towards them does you no good other than to cause you to waste emotional energy and dragging yourself down somewhere you don't want to be.

Let it go. Not for their sake, but for yours.
 
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If you think people are acting out of issues, maybe the issue is yourself.
 
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