"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A day out in the life of wuzzle

JustWuzzle

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Yesterday I went out and donated plasma :nono: I caught the bus and realized that some people just aren't that interested in talking. I talked to one girl at the bus station, She looked like a b!tch. I just aked her what time the bus got to the station even though I had a schedule in my hand. Then I asked a guy on the bus were he got his hair cut at cause my hair look terrible. Got to the plasma center and talked to a cool white guy. He got in trouble with the law a couple of times but he was cool. Then an old buddy(read aqquaintance) of mine came in but left I got his # plan to talk to him again even though he kind of weird. He has friends though and I need to get out a little bit more. Talk to another cool white guy who gave me my physical. Asked him about becoming a firefighter. Then donated my plasma. Walked to mcdonalds tried to say "hi" to some other people but they didn't look "open". Went home passed out. That was pretty much my day. maybe I should say "hi" to the people who don't look that "open" to talking. I know I sometimes look pissed off but I'm really not and just trying to look angry. I don't know that was pretty much my day. I would go out today but I'm feeling a little down for some reason.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dudewut

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Repping for ballsiness and friendliness, it takes nerve to strike up a conversation with a stranger out of nowhere.

I seriously cannot do that
 

Laracuente

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nah I talk to strangers all the time you get accustomed to it and I just see it as self entertainment when I get bored. Just learn to not care what others think of you. My friends think I'm crazy or have "balls" but I just see it as a why not.
 

EvilAgenda

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Think back to the old days, when there were no TV's, no games, no computers.
The only sources of entertainment were social interaction and story telling.

Problem with now-a-days, people are too engulfed in their lives. Most people are dealing with problems. They will ignore you, you are just another pest in their problematic lives. But if you look deeper, you start to see something. You sense something about each person you see. Each one of them is craving to escape the world full of problems. Each one of them is craving to be lead astray.

Once you can see the world in such a way, then talking to strangers will be like an intriguing game of challenge. Your reality will change. Life suddenly will become fun and exciting. Can you see each person as a player and the world as your stage? Can you see each person as a potential victim of seduction? What can you find out about the person? What is it that she/he is missing in her/his life?

Good luck Wuzzle, you are right most people are just not interested in talking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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