"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A day out in the life of wuzzle

JustWuzzle

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Yesterday I went out and donated plasma :nono: I caught the bus and realized that some people just aren't that interested in talking. I talked to one girl at the bus station, She looked like a b!tch. I just aked her what time the bus got to the station even though I had a schedule in my hand. Then I asked a guy on the bus were he got his hair cut at cause my hair look terrible. Got to the plasma center and talked to a cool white guy. He got in trouble with the law a couple of times but he was cool. Then an old buddy(read aqquaintance) of mine came in but left I got his # plan to talk to him again even though he kind of weird. He has friends though and I need to get out a little bit more. Talk to another cool white guy who gave me my physical. Asked him about becoming a firefighter. Then donated my plasma. Walked to mcdonalds tried to say "hi" to some other people but they didn't look "open". Went home passed out. That was pretty much my day. maybe I should say "hi" to the people who don't look that "open" to talking. I know I sometimes look pissed off but I'm really not and just trying to look angry. I don't know that was pretty much my day. I would go out today but I'm feeling a little down for some reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dudewut

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Repping for ballsiness and friendliness, it takes nerve to strike up a conversation with a stranger out of nowhere.

I seriously cannot do that
 

Laracuente

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nah I talk to strangers all the time you get accustomed to it and I just see it as self entertainment when I get bored. Just learn to not care what others think of you. My friends think I'm crazy or have "balls" but I just see it as a why not.
 

EvilAgenda

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Think back to the old days, when there were no TV's, no games, no computers.
The only sources of entertainment were social interaction and story telling.

Problem with now-a-days, people are too engulfed in their lives. Most people are dealing with problems. They will ignore you, you are just another pest in their problematic lives. But if you look deeper, you start to see something. You sense something about each person you see. Each one of them is craving to escape the world full of problems. Each one of them is craving to be lead astray.

Once you can see the world in such a way, then talking to strangers will be like an intriguing game of challenge. Your reality will change. Life suddenly will become fun and exciting. Can you see each person as a player and the world as your stage? Can you see each person as a potential victim of seduction? What can you find out about the person? What is it that she/he is missing in her/his life?

Good luck Wuzzle, you are right most people are just not interested in talking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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