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A day in the life of potato

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STR8UP said:
"A" out of A..B..C..D..E..F..G.........that's pretty "successful" alright

I think (s)he (potato) was just reciting the musical scale. Potato's post is so obviously written by a female or a some type of trolling it's ridiculous. I mean c'mon if you went through and read 100,000 posts of guys on here not one would be written like that. And you notice iqqi just loves troll posters being one herself ;).
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Potato, for those of us with ADD, could you break this down into chapters...or get a cliff's notes version?
Brilliant. Feel free to cut and paste this post where you see fit. Some of us do pretend to have real lives.
 

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ketostix said:
Potato's post is so obviously written by a female or a some type of trolling it's ridiculous. I mean c'mon if you went through and read 100,000 posts of guys on here not one would be written like that.
Funny that you would say that. I wrote the OP with the intention of showing the difference between what is normally talked about around here as to male-female relationships, and what others, at least I experience. It is the actual goings on of a single afternoon/evening.

A point, I suppose, that I could point out is that I showed how I treated and approached each girl according to the situation at hand and to the personality of each girl – none of that PUA stuff. Another point is that I awoke that morning with the intention of spending the next night in girl (A)’s bed. From the time I met up with her, around 3pm until just a little past midnight when we made it to her place, I was with her yet had flirty, relationship building interactions with 6 other women, and, in the end, was with the one I most desired.

You might be a little low on your 100,000 estimate. My favorite girlfriend tells me that I’m one in a million. She also tells me that I’m the only guy that she’s ever known that could attract girls the way that a hot chick attracts guys. But then, she is heavily biased in the matter.
 

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Well, my dad, at 50, could pull a mama plus her 20 year old daughter using these methods. He smoked dope too. Everywhere he went, the girls, no matter the age, gravitated to him. He is a marine, had been in tons of fights, before and after the marines, married the beauty queen right out of HS, divorced her when she tried to convert him to her religion, then married my mom. She divorced him due to infidelity or "making less money than her" - I never really found out why but that is what it was I suspect, and like a rolling stone he just continues to plow women in his 60s, like Hugh Hefner.
 

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Phyzzle said:
Man, you should tell this in installments, and give people fake names, not this G-A-T-T-A-C-A stuff.

Large swaths of this make no sense. What are these "places" you were going? And you are a 48 year old man who went into a store, and got randomly approached by 20 something guys you've never seen before who invited you to smoke their dank weed out of the blue? Where the fvck do you live?
Places: A local restaurant with an outside patio that people often gather after work for a drink a socializing; a private party; and a bar. I don’t really get the thing with 20-somethings but quite often I do get a certain segment of 20-somethings approaching me, saying that I’m cool or whatever. I’ve noticed this interconnectionness, when I am ‘on’ with women, the more crap I get from police officers and others of limited yet intrusive authority, and the more “way to go” I get from younger men.

You already knew all of these girls, and they were giving you eye-contact and flirting, but you've never tried to isolate any of them? I'm not sure what we're supposed to take from this. Start from the beginning, and tell us how you met one of them.
I never feel a need to isolate or ‘close’ on a woman. With every one of these women, the next time I see her, we will pick up where we left off.

I never hit on women. It is more I just hang out and engage each one in conversation. Consequently I have a large number of female acquaintances/friends. It’s only with the ones where there is a great of chemistry where anything comes of it.

With girl (D) during the night I did slip off to be alone with her twice that included hugging and kissing.

I’m not sure of the moment I met girl (A). Just somewhere in the continual changes within our social circles we ended up seeing each other around. When we’d show up to the same place we’d end up talking to each other. We seem to just fit well. One day we were hanging out with mutual friends and we went from sitting next to each other, to leaning together, to snuggling, to sexual arousal rather easily in a short period of time. Though we are not boyfriend/girlfriend, there is strong enough of a connection that we always seem to find time to hang out together.
 

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potato said:
I don’t really get the thing with 20-somethings but quite often I do get a certain segment of 20-somethings approaching me, saying that I’m cool or whatever.
Do you have long dreadloks? That I can see. Even if the dreds are gray, stoners tend to accept you.

I never feel a need to isolate or ‘close’ on a woman. With every one of these women, the next time I see her, we will pick up where we left off.

I never hit on women. It is more I just hang out and engage each one in conversation.

I’m not sure of the moment I met girl (A). Just somewhere in the continual changes within our social circles we ended up seeing each other around. When we’d show up to the same place we’d end up talking to each other.
You posted this with the idea of showing us how your experiences are different from the norm here, but you have to remember: what you're talking about doesn't apply to most of us and never will.

When we ask why this or that woman is so interested in you, the answer seems to be "well, she's always been interested". But how does she even know who you are? "well, I've always known her. All of our friends have always known each other." This isn't helpful to us. If we ALREADY knew all these interested women who were already introducing us to their friends . . . we wouldn't be concerned with any of this, would we?

When you disagree with the conventional wisdom here, I think you're just arguing for the sake of arguing. For the past few years, you have multiple attractive women basically fighting over you, while having everything together physically, mentally, socially, and financially. Yet when you started posting here, you were already familiar with David D'Angelo, Mystery, and the DJ Bible, etc.

I'm not sure why you started reading all this stuff, stuff that you would never use, stuff that you don't agree with. Let alone familiarized yourself with it and join the discussion. Given the success that you've always had, what on Earth were you searching for when you found this page? What on Earth prompted you to read past the first few sentences?
 

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You might be a little low on your 100,000 estimate. My favorite girlfriend tells me that I’m one in a million. She also tells me that I’m the only guy that she’s ever known that could attract girls the way that a hot chick attracts guys. But then, she is heavily biased in the matter.
OK I'll play a long. So you're one in a million. How does your posts help or apply to anyone else? I still don't buy what you post. What are the women's ages? You mention 20-year old guys but never mention the women's ages. Your post are very suspect.
 
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