"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A date with a Russian girl from class

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wong Fei Hung

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:D Zdrastye. Kak vass zovoot? Vkusno!
 

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zdes chetire-piat russkih chuvaka iz toronto, a tak naverno okolo tridzati-soroka vsego

mne kazetsya shto russkih dovolno mnogo, tk etot sait nahodyat v osnovnom programmisti-analitiki a u nas ih mnogo.
 

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Nu vot, poznakomtis s Russkim iz Minnesoti! :)
 

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Hi fellow DJs. I really cannot speak or read Russian. I am not Russian. I only know a few words. Tell me what you mean. You can PM them if you like. I wont be mad.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A lotta Ruskies up in here. That's cool, I guess... represent, you Ruskies! :cool:
 

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Fei Hung, its great that you're taking action. good job!

But remember, DON'T tell her that you like her, or ask if she'll be your girlfriend. This is the kind of stuff you should be hearing from her! A relationship is something that builds up over time, not a verbl agreement. When you two are going to be exclusive, its a gut level feeling that you'll both be aware of. You haven't even kissed her yet, so don't expect her to know what she wants yet. Heck, you still got to find out if she's worthy of You! so just go with it and don't worry about what happens. Good luck tho!:cool:
 

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I know I still have lots of things to learn. I am having fun. :D
 
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Woah. I would be VERY weary about asking her to "be your girl". Careful.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jizamurai, she told me she like me first. She showed so much interest in me on last sunday's date (2nd date). She let me give her lots of kino without rejection. I touched her thigh and her upper chest area by accident (there was a bug on there. I killed it.)

I will stay cool now. I have not kiss her on the lip and dont want to until she is ready. I gave her a kiss on the cheek when I left her train to transfer to another train. She has not called me. The only time I called her was for the dates. I only talk to her in class and outside of class. She is a very shy person in public. She is 180 when she is with me. I often saw her face turned a little red after I talk to her in class.
 

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rosiika s kitaitsem?? nu posmotrim, cherez neskolko nidel u nevo ne budet ni deneg, ne pizdi. zhelaiu etoi devchenki po-luchshe emu po-ebu dat... ia tozhe is toronto
 

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Originally posted by Roots
rosiika s kitaitsem?? nu posmotrim, cherez neskolko nidel u nevo ne budet ni deneg, ne pizdi. zhelaiu etoi devchenki po-luchshe emu po-ebu dat... ia tozhe is toronto
HEHE a mi pomozhem
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was leaving the class with her on a rainy and cold night. Before I left for the bus stop, I went to give her a hug and she kissed me! I called her 2 days later, she talked with a happy and giggling tone with me for a few minutes when she was busy doing something. :D

The other dates went okay. I still got 8 more dates to go. I feel so tired of dating when most of them so far are gold diggers. I am glad I found at least 2 quality young ladies.
 

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Please post in English if you want me to read or else it is fine. I repeat, I am not Russian nor do I know enough Russian to really understand your posts.

I still have to get this Russian HB to go out with me again. I am so busy right now with homework. She is intoxicating and so edible in the sexy way. The night she kissed me I got weak in the knees. I was in shocked. :D

I emailed her a day before with a flirtatious note. She replied in email and I didnt checked it before class. I noticed she looked so hot that night. I believed she dressed so sexy with new earrings and smelled so delicious because she wants me! I just didnt know it at the time.


Thanks to the DJ BIBLE!

AIYA!!! :p
 

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Womenese help!

"your requirements seem like too much, but maybe I can fit? :)

it's the best ad I've ever seen, and I don't want to miss my chance :)) "


This was what she said and I want help in translating it. The 2 lines are all she sent me by email. She replied to my email ad.
 

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3rd date

I am almost ready to ask her for a 3rd date. She is still interested. She has shown me that she is interested. I will find out how high it is.

She is so shy sometimes like in class. She is a whole different person on the date or the phone.

Here is my plan for the 3rd date. I am going to take a walk across a bridge with her. We will start dancing when we get to the middle of the bridge. After the bridge, we will throw pennies into a water fountain and announce our wishes out loud. Then, I will take her to eat chinese noodles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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