"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Daddy Complex---?

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Destiny17

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So the girl I know has a daddy complex, and she got with a guy faster than I expected she would. How do you treat a girl who desperately requires attention from males and who will leave your attention and go find it in someone else if it's not being met as desired?

Doesn't this defy the science of playing hard to get? She's bipolar and her dad has never told her I love you. So any suck up willing to cuddle with her could get in her pants- that guy obviously is not me now, but I need a way to demonstrate higher value in me so she turns on this cuddling fool.

How to guys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This girl sounds like she had some serious problems. Why do you want her in the first place? Unless you a shrink you can't "fix" her. This nerotic behavior will repeat itself over and over again. You'll be back on So Suave posting: "My girlfriend gave my Dad a hand job! What do I do now????"

My advice is to find a chick without wacky tendencies
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! I'm Bipolar (no such thing - by the way!), my daddy doesn't love me, I want attention, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!!
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! Bipolar, my daddy doesn't love me, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to be a hor and open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!! Don't try to validate yourself -- she must validate herself to you!!!
 
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I know a girl like this actually. Dad was away from home for business most of her childhood and she would be away a lot for various sporting activities. This girl literally can't go a week without having a boyfriend and she'll basically take the first guy that shows interest in her... and she'll date him for like half a year too.

Anyway dude, move on. Girls like this are weak emotionally and are just a clingy pain in the ass after a while. Seriously I can't stand a woman who can't be independent and self sufficient.

Give me an Amazon woman over a housewife any day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do guys persist obn getting with women who look good on the outside, but are a mess on the inside? Leave, good ridence to her. The last thing you need is a nutjob who is so insecure if you need to leave her she threatens suicide or something like that.

I've always said don't admire average or below average guys dating young HB's. Most of the times that type of HB who will date men far beneath her in looks or social status is a mental basket case who can't get decent guys. Always remember water seeks it's own level. Always!!!
 
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