Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A Daddy Complex---?

Destiny17

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So the girl I know has a daddy complex, and she got with a guy faster than I expected she would. How do you treat a girl who desperately requires attention from males and who will leave your attention and go find it in someone else if it's not being met as desired?

Doesn't this defy the science of playing hard to get? She's bipolar and her dad has never told her I love you. So any suck up willing to cuddle with her could get in her pants- that guy obviously is not me now, but I need a way to demonstrate higher value in me so she turns on this cuddling fool.

How to guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WaterTiger

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This girl sounds like she had some serious problems. Why do you want her in the first place? Unless you a shrink you can't "fix" her. This nerotic behavior will repeat itself over and over again. You'll be back on So Suave posting: "My girlfriend gave my Dad a hand job! What do I do now????"

My advice is to find a chick without wacky tendencies
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! I'm Bipolar (no such thing - by the way!), my daddy doesn't love me, I want attention, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!!
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! Bipolar, my daddy doesn't love me, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to be a hor and open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!! Don't try to validate yourself -- she must validate herself to you!!!
 

Kwello

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I know a girl like this actually. Dad was away from home for business most of her childhood and she would be away a lot for various sporting activities. This girl literally can't go a week without having a boyfriend and she'll basically take the first guy that shows interest in her... and she'll date him for like half a year too.

Anyway dude, move on. Girls like this are weak emotionally and are just a clingy pain in the ass after a while. Seriously I can't stand a woman who can't be independent and self sufficient.

Give me an Amazon woman over a housewife any day.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ricorico

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Why do guys persist obn getting with women who look good on the outside, but are a mess on the inside? Leave, good ridence to her. The last thing you need is a nutjob who is so insecure if you need to leave her she threatens suicide or something like that.

I've always said don't admire average or below average guys dating young HB's. Most of the times that type of HB who will date men far beneath her in looks or social status is a mental basket case who can't get decent guys. Always remember water seeks it's own level. Always!!!
 
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