"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Daddy Complex---?

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Destiny17

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So the girl I know has a daddy complex, and she got with a guy faster than I expected she would. How do you treat a girl who desperately requires attention from males and who will leave your attention and go find it in someone else if it's not being met as desired?

Doesn't this defy the science of playing hard to get? She's bipolar and her dad has never told her I love you. So any suck up willing to cuddle with her could get in her pants- that guy obviously is not me now, but I need a way to demonstrate higher value in me so she turns on this cuddling fool.

How to guys?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This girl sounds like she had some serious problems. Why do you want her in the first place? Unless you a shrink you can't "fix" her. This nerotic behavior will repeat itself over and over again. You'll be back on So Suave posting: "My girlfriend gave my Dad a hand job! What do I do now????"

My advice is to find a chick without wacky tendencies
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! I'm Bipolar (no such thing - by the way!), my daddy doesn't love me, I want attention, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!!
 
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Quit trying to justify her hordoms kid!!!! Bipolar, my daddy doesn't love me, blah, blah, blah - "I'm going to be a hor and open my legs because of this!!!" This doesn't make sense!!!!! Don't try to validate yourself -- she must validate herself to you!!!
 
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I know a girl like this actually. Dad was away from home for business most of her childhood and she would be away a lot for various sporting activities. This girl literally can't go a week without having a boyfriend and she'll basically take the first guy that shows interest in her... and she'll date him for like half a year too.

Anyway dude, move on. Girls like this are weak emotionally and are just a clingy pain in the ass after a while. Seriously I can't stand a woman who can't be independent and self sufficient.

Give me an Amazon woman over a housewife any day.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do guys persist obn getting with women who look good on the outside, but are a mess on the inside? Leave, good ridence to her. The last thing you need is a nutjob who is so insecure if you need to leave her she threatens suicide or something like that.

I've always said don't admire average or below average guys dating young HB's. Most of the times that type of HB who will date men far beneath her in looks or social status is a mental basket case who can't get decent guys. Always remember water seeks it's own level. Always!!!
 
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