"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A crap she got me confused

sargent158

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Ok so in a few mins im about to go on a first date with this girl she is so beautiful im not gonna lie im pretty excited. I asked her for address so i can pick her up and she said no dont worry ill drive. this crap just threw me off cuz im used to driving, i feel like i might feel like im not in control, like im like a little ***** or something lol forgive me if i sound retarted, weird or w/e but what do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't even think about it, analyzing it will only get you stuck in your head and that is ALWAYS a bad place to be in. When you find yourself thinking about it and wondering WHY, just start thinking about something else. Forget about it. Good luck!
 

zekko

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I have my girl drive me around sometimes. Just think of it like she's your chauffer.
 
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