"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A crap she got me confused

sargent158

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Ok so in a few mins im about to go on a first date with this girl she is so beautiful im not gonna lie im pretty excited. I asked her for address so i can pick her up and she said no dont worry ill drive. this crap just threw me off cuz im used to driving, i feel like i might feel like im not in control, like im like a little ***** or something lol forgive me if i sound retarted, weird or w/e but what do you guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't even think about it, analyzing it will only get you stuck in your head and that is ALWAYS a bad place to be in. When you find yourself thinking about it and wondering WHY, just start thinking about something else. Forget about it. Good luck!
 

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I have my girl drive me around sometimes. Just think of it like she's your chauffer.
 
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