"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fred Da Head said:
Does that mean Anti-Dump's stuff isn't good because he doesn't post here anymore? What about Pook's writings?

Bumping good tips is, well, a good thing. That way people don't go and post the same thing all over again as has been happening so much around here, and they don't post questions when their answer is in a post like this.
Well, I'd agree with you, but the same advice is posted on an almost daily basis along with almost any advice posted on this site. There is a reason this topic died a year ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I guess you're right. We need to get Anti-Dump, Pook, and all the greats back so they can make up new stuff so we can repeat that new stuff along with the old stuff!
 

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Fred Da Head said:
I guess you're right. We need to get Anti-Dump, Pook, and all the greats back so they can make up new stuff so we can repeat that new stuff along with the old stuff!
Or maybe some of the new crowd could share some solid new ideas.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Or maybe some of the new crowd could share some solid new ideas.
I'd like that, too, but from the looks of it, it's not going to happen. I hate to be pessimist, but the new crowd seems to be stagnant.
 

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Chances are that if a girl is even remotley interested in you she'll call you and e-mail you frequently.

Some girls play hard to get but that's my measuring stick right there:

"Did she ask me for my number?"
"Does she call me back and call me all the time?"


^basically if she doesn't she probably doesn't like you just move on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chances are that if a girl is even remotley interested in you she'll call you and e-mail you frequently.
yea OK...and then you woke up


We don't need new ideas, it is what it is...this aint for your entertainment...its good to keep refreshing the old stuff because you spend so much time focusing on yourself you forget that you gotta sacrifice time an effort for some of these broads.

It also humbles you and reminds you that no matter how much value you have you aint no better than the average joe, and you gotta wear a shiit eating grin like everybody else, I hate when mu'fukkas be trying to re-invent the wheel an shiit.
 

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..It also humbles you and reminds you that no matter how much value you have you aint no better than the average joe, and you gotta wear a shiit eating grin like everybody else, I hate when mu'fukkas be trying to re-invent the wheel an shiit.
That's an interesting perspective.
 

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Tha Realnezz said:
Chances are that if a girl is even remotley interested in you she'll call you and e-mail you frequently.

Some girls play hard to get but that's my measuring stick right there:

"Did she ask me for my number?"
"Does she call me back and call me all the time?"


^basically if she doesn't she probably doesn't like you just move on.
total dellusion.
 
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The Juan and only said:
What a ridiculus thing to say. yes women have the power to reject you, but that's just the way it is. Generally speaking a woman won't make the moves.

Look, even though each woman has the power to reject any guy that approaches her. She DOESN'T have the power to choose who she interects with -- she must wait for guys to present themselves and then make a decision.
I dont know. If a girl is into a guy or likes a guy from scratch, she will be doing the initiating and the pursuing. Her 'second-choice' guys, or guys she's really not into have to do all the initiating and pursuing.

Like, this is a function of IL or something right? High IL, she initiates and pursues, medium IL, the guy initiates and pursues, she reacts positively, low IL, well you are flogging a horse with all your actions and you'll get torpedoed if another guy comes into the picture.

This is how I read this thread. Guess most people meet women with medium IL or something that's why they do all the pursuing and initiating first, and try to use skills, game or whatever to convert medium IL to high IL and pump up the buying temperature or something.

He who controls the IL holds the power.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
I'd like that, too, but from the looks of it, it's not going to happen. I hate to be pessimist, but the new crowd seems to be stagnant.
I'm trying. Pook stole all the good advice. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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