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Don Juan
You know, I get so sick and tired of people in here saying the same tired line that goes something like this:
She walked all over you because you LET her, or you should have known better, etc.
That is just plain IGNORANT. I found this site when I was LOST. Like most males out there, I had no one to guide me, to tell me, that girls are NOT "sugar and spice." Girls LOOK innocent, they let you think that they ARE innocent, the MEDIA tells us this every day, our own MOTHERS tell us this, and, in most cases, our FATHERS even tell us this.
Telling young DJ's that "you let her walk all over you, and it is YOUR fault", although may be true, is like telling a 5 year old it is "his fault" for failing to use sunscreen when he gets sunburned.
How are we supposed to know any different? I, for one, never DREAMED that females could be so capable at manipulating men and abusing their power. I kept failing with women, although I was doing everything "right." Sites like this, that tell it how it REALLY is, and gives a REAL (politically incorrect) view of women and what we can do to gain their respect, are EXTREMELY RARE.
Girls are taught, from their mothers and every female magazine out there how to "get your man to beg for more" etc.....just check out the covers of some of these magazines the next time you are standing in line at the grocery store. There is NOTHING like that for men. NO ONE TELLS US HOW IT REALLY IS.
This site is AWESOME! The young DJs come here looking for help, they are lost, like we once were, and they are HURTING. So let them vent, and guide them, give them time, but please stop telling them it is THEIR fault. Doesn't the rest of the world tell young boys it is their fault for everything that is wrong with this world without us joining in?
She walked all over you because you LET her, or you should have known better, etc.
That is just plain IGNORANT. I found this site when I was LOST. Like most males out there, I had no one to guide me, to tell me, that girls are NOT "sugar and spice." Girls LOOK innocent, they let you think that they ARE innocent, the MEDIA tells us this every day, our own MOTHERS tell us this, and, in most cases, our FATHERS even tell us this.
Telling young DJ's that "you let her walk all over you, and it is YOUR fault", although may be true, is like telling a 5 year old it is "his fault" for failing to use sunscreen when he gets sunburned.
How are we supposed to know any different? I, for one, never DREAMED that females could be so capable at manipulating men and abusing their power. I kept failing with women, although I was doing everything "right." Sites like this, that tell it how it REALLY is, and gives a REAL (politically incorrect) view of women and what we can do to gain their respect, are EXTREMELY RARE.
Girls are taught, from their mothers and every female magazine out there how to "get your man to beg for more" etc.....just check out the covers of some of these magazines the next time you are standing in line at the grocery store. There is NOTHING like that for men. NO ONE TELLS US HOW IT REALLY IS.
This site is AWESOME! The young DJs come here looking for help, they are lost, like we once were, and they are HURTING. So let them vent, and guide them, give them time, but please stop telling them it is THEIR fault. Doesn't the rest of the world tell young boys it is their fault for everything that is wrong with this world without us joining in?
