"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A college kid's perspective....

Silex

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First and foremost, I would like to say that
this site has helped me immensly with my interactions with women and my life overall. I have visited this site on and off merely as a spectator but never posting anything, so here goes...

Even at this stage in my life (Im 23), I'm still having trouble in the following areas (Ive been kinda rusty lately):

1). Clubs (Opening groups, isolation, rapport etc...)
2). Talking to girls on the phone
3). Unforeseen meetings or situations that require social interaction
4). Car conversation with girls
5). Everyday activities with girls – namely anything longer than 15 minutes.
6). Pre/Post class interactions with girls

You guys have any suggestions? I'm not asking for a script.. Just conversation topics and tips....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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quest

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Its like driving a car.
If you read a 500 page manual on how to drive a car.
You still don't know how to drive.

-true?

So reading all the tips you want won't help.
You need to be out in the field practising.
-it sorta sounds like you are. so just keep doing what your doing.

and don't give up.
 

ianlove

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i agree

you can know all the technical stuff to the letter but thats onl 50% of the job done. The other Fiddy is puttin your know into gear and learnin what works right for you.

This site has indeed helped ME in this area of life and i'm sure its helped x amount of others who will big me up on that.(Guys...please!)

Post siting i have put alot of my **** into gear and hell...the ladies are thankful LOL

Only practice makes perfect son. :cool:
 

BxPrince24

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I think that you should watch a lot of shows, preferrably late night shows such as the Dave Letterman show or the Conan O'Brien show. They keep you up to date with things going on in the world but they do it in a comedic way which may provide as good material or topics for your next conversation.
 
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