"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A college kid's perspective....

Silex

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First and foremost, I would like to say that
this site has helped me immensly with my interactions with women and my life overall. I have visited this site on and off merely as a spectator but never posting anything, so here goes...

Even at this stage in my life (Im 23), I'm still having trouble in the following areas (Ive been kinda rusty lately):

1). Clubs (Opening groups, isolation, rapport etc...)
2). Talking to girls on the phone
3). Unforeseen meetings or situations that require social interaction
4). Car conversation with girls
5). Everyday activities with girls – namely anything longer than 15 minutes.
6). Pre/Post class interactions with girls

You guys have any suggestions? I'm not asking for a script.. Just conversation topics and tips....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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quest

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Its like driving a car.
If you read a 500 page manual on how to drive a car.
You still don't know how to drive.

-true?

So reading all the tips you want won't help.
You need to be out in the field practising.
-it sorta sounds like you are. so just keep doing what your doing.

and don't give up.
 

ianlove

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i agree

you can know all the technical stuff to the letter but thats onl 50% of the job done. The other Fiddy is puttin your know into gear and learnin what works right for you.

This site has indeed helped ME in this area of life and i'm sure its helped x amount of others who will big me up on that.(Guys...please!)

Post siting i have put alot of my **** into gear and hell...the ladies are thankful LOL

Only practice makes perfect son. :cool:
 

BxPrince24

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I think that you should watch a lot of shows, preferrably late night shows such as the Dave Letterman show or the Conan O'Brien show. They keep you up to date with things going on in the world but they do it in a comedic way which may provide as good material or topics for your next conversation.
 
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