"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A college kid's perspective....

Silex

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First and foremost, I would like to say that
this site has helped me immensly with my interactions with women and my life overall. I have visited this site on and off merely as a spectator but never posting anything, so here goes...

Even at this stage in my life (Im 23), I'm still having trouble in the following areas (Ive been kinda rusty lately):

1). Clubs (Opening groups, isolation, rapport etc...)
2). Talking to girls on the phone
3). Unforeseen meetings or situations that require social interaction
4). Car conversation with girls
5). Everyday activities with girls – namely anything longer than 15 minutes.
6). Pre/Post class interactions with girls

You guys have any suggestions? I'm not asking for a script.. Just conversation topics and tips....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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quest

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Its like driving a car.
If you read a 500 page manual on how to drive a car.
You still don't know how to drive.

-true?

So reading all the tips you want won't help.
You need to be out in the field practising.
-it sorta sounds like you are. so just keep doing what your doing.

and don't give up.
 

ianlove

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i agree

you can know all the technical stuff to the letter but thats onl 50% of the job done. The other Fiddy is puttin your know into gear and learnin what works right for you.

This site has indeed helped ME in this area of life and i'm sure its helped x amount of others who will big me up on that.(Guys...please!)

Post siting i have put alot of my **** into gear and hell...the ladies are thankful LOL

Only practice makes perfect son. :cool:
 

BxPrince24

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I think that you should watch a lot of shows, preferrably late night shows such as the Dave Letterman show or the Conan O'Brien show. They keep you up to date with things going on in the world but they do it in a comedic way which may provide as good material or topics for your next conversation.
 
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