A classic case of 99% of men being invisible to a typical woman

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There was a woman complaining about how every man she goes on dates with practically puts no effort in to their appearance and looks like a hobo. After doing some further digging down, I figured out that this girl is only going out with your typical super outdoorsy hipster white guys with dreads or man buns (shaggy beards were a plus to her lmao). 99% of women are little girls and you cannot take 99% of anything they say seriously at all. You guys need to realize that if you did honestly did 100% your best with a woman and she still ended up playing around then it wasn't because you didn't ask her how her day was in a masculine Russian accent, it was because she was a damn child to begin.

 

[bat soup]

There was a woman complaining about how every man she goes on dates with practically puts no effort in to their appearance and looks like a hobo. After doing some further digging down, I figured out that this girl is only going out with your typical super outdoorsy hipster white guys with dreads or man buns (shaggy beards were a plus to her lmao). 99% of women are little girls and you cannot take 99% of anything they say seriously at all. You guys need to realize that if you did honestly did 100% your best with a woman and she still ended up playing around then it wasn't because you didn't ask her how her day was in a masculine Russian accent, it was because she was a damn child to begin.

Well, she chose them. So she could choose guys that don't look like hobos if she wanted to.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I suspect some of the traits women say they want are true, but there are also qualities they look for that they don't broadcast . I also suspect a lot of them are contradictory: "I want an athletic, nerdy type of guy!"

The girl you mentioned probably wanted a guy who's casual and not trying to impress, while simultaneously a sharp dresser who takes care of himself.

I'm guessing the issue is that most women don't have anything resembling a real screening process because they don't actually know what type of guy they are attracted to, only what type they think they should be attracted to.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OP, who cares? She obviously is cool with that because she chose them in the first place. More likely it's because they are boring, have no conversational skills and no flirting ability.

You keep trying to make excuses as to why guys can't succeed and why they shouldn't even try. That defeatist attitude will get you nowhere with women or in life and it also tends to carry over to other areas of your life...

These women need to be impressing me, not the other way around.

Never believe that a woman can actually verbalize what she wants. They just know it when it's in front of them.

 

[zekko]

I suspect some of the traits women say they want are true, but there are also qualities they look for that they don't broadcast . I also suspect a lot of them are contradictory: "I want an athletic, nerdy type of guy!"

This is going to date me, but this reminds me of the Breakfast Club and the last line: "Each one of us is a brain, and an athlete, and a basket case, a princess, and a criminal". Teenagers tend to put each other into sterotypical little boxes, but when they get older they realize people are more diverse and varied than they gave them credit for. Someone might like nerdy things but also be good at sports. I think this is something the younger generations now are doing better than mine did, they don't seem to have the border lines so firmly drawn that you aren't supposed to cross.