Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A clarification on natural vs enhanced

[S]alvatore

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So there seems to be some people on this forum that are pretty misinformed on what is achievable as a natural lifter. This comes down to a few things:

1. Personal inexperience in the gym, which means you don't know what is attainable after 2,3,4,5,10 years of training.

2. The supplement industry claiming that x product gave x bodybuilder faster/more gains. Money.

3. Professional bodybuilder and physique competitors that claim "100% NATTY, GOD LIKE GENETICS". They need to say this, otherwise they will lose their sponserships with supplement companies. There are also legal repercussions in certain countries. The problem with this, is that all the newbies become misinformed and their perception is skewed.

Big
Lean
Natural


As a natural, you can only choose 2.

- Big & natural (but fat)
- Lean & natural (but small)
- Big & lean (hormonized)

A simple formula to calculate your maximum natural potential is: your height in centimetres minus 100. (In contest condition)


Using myself as an example:

170cm - 100 = 70kg at 5% bodyfat

That is as big as I can get without using AAS. It may be a little bit more, or it may be a little bit less, depending on your genetics.


Here is a good guide: http://i40.tinypic.com/2qlhfn7.jpg

Scale weight is not the only indicator. If someone has nice rounded, 3D delts, they either have or are currently using gear. If they have that photoshop look to them, they're on.


When a natural is lean, they look like sh1t without a pump. If they are big, they will look fat and bloated.

After 3-4 years of consistent training and proper nutrition, you will be lucky to gain 1-2lbs of muscle per year. After 10 years? Forget it.

Don't believe these pro's that claim they are so big because they've been training for 10, 15, 20 years, it's a bunch of B.S.

Strength development is a different story. It can keep progressing for decades, but it also slows down alot after those initial few years of training.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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Pretty much exactly true...made more progress on 8 weeks of test than I did in the previous year and a half in fat loss, strength and muscle gain.
 
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