"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A "Cintamatic adventure"

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I told a girl we would go on a "Cintamatic adventure" together this weekend.Yeah.The thing Is I have absolutely no cintamatic adventure in mind.Oops.She's coming over to my place to hang out around 7:30ish.Any activities you guys can think of that fall under the catagory "Cintamatic adventure".I need something out of the ordinary.I guess I could always pop in a movie,(which is what a cintamatic adventure is) but I've done that and its not literally adventurous.Help appreciated.:nervous:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude, just get a decent movie and try to make it a good night (if you know what I mean ;) ) She probably realizes its not gonna be an Imax or a Disneyland ride, chill. Hopefully, she just wants to spend some time with you. Oh, and in the future, never use a cheesy line like that again. lol! Just relax man, you'll be ok. :up:
 
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Do you mean "CINEMATIC"?

Not sure what Cintamatic is, but it sounds like a robot-inspired Mexican holiday.
 
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realsmoothie said:
Do you mean "CINEMATIC"?

Not sure what Cintamatic is, but it sounds like a robot-inspired Mexican holiday.
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Cinematic adventure....*googles it*

Search produced over 1,000 results involving Jack Orlando.

:crazy: I dunno man.....search "movie" go through the threads and take some info from there......here is a temp link to that if you wish..

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=275397

Good luck, and have fun!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Themanthatcan said:
Cinematic, cintamatic.Its all the same.Thanks for the help guys, I'll do what I can.
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Not with the women that I like to attract. Classier women notice a man's grammar. I certainly notice theirs.

Sun Tzu
 
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Sorry.My mistake.It's just not a word used in everyday conversation.Plus, this convo isn't about my grammer. It's about ideas for a date at the house.If you don't have an opinion on the matter, then please refrain.
 
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Don't be too proud to accept genuine help and advice. Certainly the 3 posters who mentioned the misuse of the word did it with your best interest at heart.

So how did it go? Were you TheManThatCould?

It's too late now, but I thought a good "Cinematic Adventure" might be to pick up an inexpensive personal DVD player and go to a romantic spot with a bottle of wine.

Sun Tzu
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Themanthatcan said:
Sorry.My mistake.It's just not a word used in everyday conversation.Plus, this convo isn't about my grammer. It's about ideas for a date at the house.If you don't have an opinion on the matter, then please refrain.
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You're right, it's not about your "grammer". jk bro
 
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