"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A "Cintamatic adventure"

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I told a girl we would go on a "Cintamatic adventure" together this weekend.Yeah.The thing Is I have absolutely no cintamatic adventure in mind.Oops.She's coming over to my place to hang out around 7:30ish.Any activities you guys can think of that fall under the catagory "Cintamatic adventure".I need something out of the ordinary.I guess I could always pop in a movie,(which is what a cintamatic adventure is) but I've done that and its not literally adventurous.Help appreciated.:nervous:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, just get a decent movie and try to make it a good night (if you know what I mean ;) ) She probably realizes its not gonna be an Imax or a Disneyland ride, chill. Hopefully, she just wants to spend some time with you. Oh, and in the future, never use a cheesy line like that again. lol! Just relax man, you'll be ok. :up:
 
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Do you mean "CINEMATIC"?

Not sure what Cintamatic is, but it sounds like a robot-inspired Mexican holiday.
 
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realsmoothie said:
Do you mean "CINEMATIC"?

Not sure what Cintamatic is, but it sounds like a robot-inspired Mexican holiday.
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Cinematic adventure....*googles it*

Search produced over 1,000 results involving Jack Orlando.

:crazy: I dunno man.....search "movie" go through the threads and take some info from there......here is a temp link to that if you wish..

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=275397

Good luck, and have fun!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Themanthatcan said:
Cinematic, cintamatic.Its all the same.Thanks for the help guys, I'll do what I can.
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Not with the women that I like to attract. Classier women notice a man's grammar. I certainly notice theirs.

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Sorry.My mistake.It's just not a word used in everyday conversation.Plus, this convo isn't about my grammer. It's about ideas for a date at the house.If you don't have an opinion on the matter, then please refrain.
 
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Don't be too proud to accept genuine help and advice. Certainly the 3 posters who mentioned the misuse of the word did it with your best interest at heart.

So how did it go? Were you TheManThatCould?

It's too late now, but I thought a good "Cinematic Adventure" might be to pick up an inexpensive personal DVD player and go to a romantic spot with a bottle of wine.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Themanthatcan said:
Sorry.My mistake.It's just not a word used in everyday conversation.Plus, this convo isn't about my grammer. It's about ideas for a date at the house.If you don't have an opinion on the matter, then please refrain.
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You're right, it's not about your "grammer". jk bro
 
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