"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a chick that sounds bossy...

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ive never such...

i'll not delve into details here and try to make this short as possible..

well,this HB8 i think,is my classmate in my PE class...

i've been giving her EC and she seems to be shy and i caught her also checkin me out...

she looks quiet until recently...when i ask if she has an extra paper she sounds bossy,arrogant,whatever u call it...

me:hey,HB8, do you have an extra paper?(i was smiling)
hb8:no i dont have ballpen.(she look angry idk)
me:ahh,here divide this paper into two.(she actually ordered me to do and leave)

so i divided the paper and let it be....

later i was talking to getting the ball from one of my male classmate when she suddenly butt in and scolded me.. the convo went like this.

me:hey that ball belong to my groupmate,give it back man...
(HB butts in)
HB8: why dont u let us have this ball...cant u be a gentleman?
(i didnt say anything i just smile at her)

afterwards,my male friend gave up the ball...

also my professor got pissed at me and didn't let me take the practical exam coz of sumthing...and she also shouted at me in front of the whole class.so i got pissed...the HB8 looked a little worried...

after the practical exam she lets the whole class to practice (volleyball) but i was so pissed then so i just sit down...then idk but this HB8 stand infront of me like she's inviting me to play with her but i just didn't mind her...so after 5 mins. she search for sum1 else to play with...

i decided to get out of the gym but she stop and said, "Hey, dont go yet! stay for a while."(she was smiling)

i was just so puzzled by this girl...is she interested or not?

i think she is but idk...

help me master don juans
 

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who cares she sounds like a *****. Next
 

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she is interested but do not get attached, she sounds like a on timer.

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.
 

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she's intimidated by you she thinks your out of her league so doesnt know how to act towards a guy like you its like when you were a little kid and the girl that was a ***** to you actually liked you a lot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NickBe said:
she is interested but do not get attached, she sounds like a on timer.

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.
what do you mean by on timer?nwei thanks for the opinion...
 

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its really confusing why this girls acts like bull**** then...bah!

thanks guys!and keep the insights comin...
 

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I explained it didn't I?

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.

Women that act like you described are very emotional. They get attached very quickly and become very annoying. The idea is the sleep with her once and then cut off all contact. You do not want to sleep with her more than once or she will fall in love with you.
 

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Yeah, sometimes a gal who's attracted but intimidated will go overboard in the other direction.
 

gherald

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NickBe said:
I explained it didn't I?

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.

Women that act like you described are very emotional. They get attached very quickly and become very annoying. The idea is the sleep with her once and then cut off all contact. You do not want to sleep with her more than once or she will fall in love with you.
thanks dude...your advice are always helpful...

ciao
 

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NickBe makes an important point. If you sleep with her multiple times, she'll fall in love with you very quickly unless she is fukkin lots of dudes.
 
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