"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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a chick that sounds bossy...

gherald

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ive never such...

i'll not delve into details here and try to make this short as possible..

well,this HB8 i think,is my classmate in my PE class...

i've been giving her EC and she seems to be shy and i caught her also checkin me out...

she looks quiet until recently...when i ask if she has an extra paper she sounds bossy,arrogant,whatever u call it...

me:hey,HB8, do you have an extra paper?(i was smiling)
hb8:no i dont have ballpen.(she look angry idk)
me:ahh,here divide this paper into two.(she actually ordered me to do and leave)

so i divided the paper and let it be....

later i was talking to getting the ball from one of my male classmate when she suddenly butt in and scolded me.. the convo went like this.

me:hey that ball belong to my groupmate,give it back man...
(HB butts in)
HB8: why dont u let us have this ball...cant u be a gentleman?
(i didnt say anything i just smile at her)

afterwards,my male friend gave up the ball...

also my professor got pissed at me and didn't let me take the practical exam coz of sumthing...and she also shouted at me in front of the whole class.so i got pissed...the HB8 looked a little worried...

after the practical exam she lets the whole class to practice (volleyball) but i was so pissed then so i just sit down...then idk but this HB8 stand infront of me like she's inviting me to play with her but i just didn't mind her...so after 5 mins. she search for sum1 else to play with...

i decided to get out of the gym but she stop and said, "Hey, dont go yet! stay for a while."(she was smiling)

i was just so puzzled by this girl...is she interested or not?

i think she is but idk...

help me master don juans
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Skel

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who cares she sounds like a *****. Next
 

NickBe

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she is interested but do not get attached, she sounds like a on timer.

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.
 

jtrain 289

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she's intimidated by you she thinks your out of her league so doesnt know how to act towards a guy like you its like when you were a little kid and the girl that was a ***** to you actually liked you a lot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NickBe said:
she is interested but do not get attached, she sounds like a on timer.

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.
what do you mean by on timer?nwei thanks for the opinion...
 

gherald

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its really confusing why this girls acts like bull**** then...bah!

thanks guys!and keep the insights comin...
 

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I explained it didn't I?

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.

Women that act like you described are very emotional. They get attached very quickly and become very annoying. The idea is the sleep with her once and then cut off all contact. You do not want to sleep with her more than once or she will fall in love with you.
 

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Yeah, sometimes a gal who's attracted but intimidated will go overboard in the other direction.
 

gherald

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NickBe said:
I explained it didn't I?

One Timer = F*ck her once and then forget about her. Actually this goes for any sexual interaction in which you c*m a head or hand job. After you c*m you cut off all contact.

Women that act like you described are very emotional. They get attached very quickly and become very annoying. The idea is the sleep with her once and then cut off all contact. You do not want to sleep with her more than once or she will fall in love with you.
thanks dude...your advice are always helpful...

ciao
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NickBe makes an important point. If you sleep with her multiple times, she'll fall in love with you very quickly unless she is fukkin lots of dudes.
 
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