I texted a few of my friends "merry xmas" of which one of them happened to be a chick I've dated in the past. After she responded enthusiastically, I proceeded to ask her out on a date to a movie I wanted to see. It went well as a movie can go such that there's very little communication. Whatever, I wanted to see that movie and I wasn't gonna go by myself. Anyway, the next night while I was at a club dancing with another girl closely I noticed Girl A standing above the dance floor peering down at us. OOPS! I didn't know she was even at the club beforehand. Anyway, I saw her later that evening standing in front of me so I tugged her arm and said "hey". She didn't turn around and just ignored me. I think she's mad. I wanted to ask her out again though. Do you think this would be a good I idea? Maybe wait a couple weeks? Dunno.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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