I texted a few of my friends "merry xmas" of which one of them happened to be a chick I've dated in the past. After she responded enthusiastically, I proceeded to ask her out on a date to a movie I wanted to see. It went well as a movie can go such that there's very little communication. Whatever, I wanted to see that movie and I wasn't gonna go by myself. Anyway, the next night while I was at a club dancing with another girl closely I noticed Girl A standing above the dance floor peering down at us. OOPS! I didn't know she was even at the club beforehand. Anyway, I saw her later that evening standing in front of me so I tugged her arm and said "hey". She didn't turn around and just ignored me. I think she's mad. I wanted to ask her out again though. Do you think this would be a good I idea? Maybe wait a couple weeks? Dunno.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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